StatusNettag:rainbowdash.net,2024-03-29:FriendsTimeline:65264maryb and friendsUpdates from maryb and friends on Rainbow Dash Network!http://av.rdn.io/avatar/65264-96-20190620230851.jpeg2024-03-29T08:30:03+00:00http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/commenthttp://rainbowdash.net/notice/5467946@scribus "Eli, Eli, lama sabachthani ?" Oh I tell you why. While not calling for the death of groups you do not agree with directly you certainly do not seem to be too keen on calling it out either. In your other post you talk about those you deem worthy of execution. Worthy ? ... *WORTHY !* Face it. You became just as bad as the people you deem worthy of disrespect or worse. May that mark upon your skin be forever be a reminder of the person you became you swore you did not want to be. Everyone who thinks I am an asshole should realize something. Do it ! I will happily martyr myself in your memories and off of this platform. The next time something bad happens or the 'wrong' person gets elected I want you all to blame me. Scribus can quote Romans 2:1 and you can all rest assured that everyone is safe as you did the right thing by closing yourself off from answering questions and using shaming tactics to establish dominance and promote group-think.@<span class="vcard"><a href="http://rainbowdash.net/user/60" class="url" title="Scribus"><span class="fn nickname mention">scribus</span></a></span> "Eli, Eli, lama sabachthani ?"<br /><br />Oh I tell you why. While not calling for the death of groups you do not agree with directly you certainly do not seem to be too keen on calling it out either.<br /><br />In your other post you talk about those you deem worthy of execution. Worthy ? ... <b>WORTHY !</b> Face it. You became just as bad as the people you deem worthy of disrespect or worse. May that mark upon your skin be forever be a reminder of the person you became you swore you did not want to be.<br /><br />Everyone who thinks I am an asshole should realize something. Do it ! I will happily martyr myself in your memories and off of this platform. The next time something bad happens or the 'wrong' person gets elected I want you all to blame me. Scribus can quote Romans 2:1 and you can all rest assured that everyone is safe as you did the right thing by closing yourself off from answering questions and using shaming tactics to establish dominance and promote group-think.http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/post2019-12-14T10:58:54+00:002019-12-14T10:58:54+00:00http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/personhttp://rainbowdash.net/user/62529drinkingponydrinkingponyAlcoholic BeastI think it is a bar ?http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/commenthttp://rainbowdash.net/notice/5467922@scribus Psh, really ? I do not believe for one second that any proverbial key to any castle is to be found around here now. Probably never even was to the first place. I am a staunch believer that there are no people actively hating one another, just people who have a misunderstanding of somekind. What if I were to declare the D word to be just as offensive as the N word ? You would be confused as to what I even mean since you obviously never heard of it. Even though, I think it should be fairly obvious, look at my name FGS. But, you never asked. You only assumed. Which is why we are having a breakdown of comminucation in a way. Asking why is a bad thing tho [ makes universal sign language symbol for coocoo ] Have fun condoning calling out for the death of TERFS and share apple recipes on Tories. Because democracy is only good when it serves your own echo chamber, right ? I'd quote Matthew 7:5 at you but you would probably just use that to call me a Conservative or something.@<span class="vcard"><a href="http://rainbowdash.net/user/60" class="url" title="Scribus"><span class="fn nickname mention">scribus</span></a></span> Psh, really ? I do not believe for one second that any proverbial key to any castle is to be found around here now. Probably never even was to the first place. I am a staunch believer that there are no people actively hating one another, just people who have a misunderstanding of somekind. What if I were to declare the D word to be just as offensive as the N word ? You would be confused as to what I even mean since you obviously never heard of it. Even though, I think it should be fairly obvious, look at my name FGS. But, you never asked. You only assumed. Which is why we are having a breakdown of comminucation in a way.<br /><br />Asking why is a bad thing tho [ makes universal sign language symbol for coocoo ]<br /><br />Have fun condoning calling out for the death of TERFS and share apple recipes on Tories. Because democracy is only good when it serves your own echo chamber, right ? I'd quote Matthew 7:5 at you but you would probably just use that to call me a Conservative or something.http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/post2019-12-13T22:03:39+00:002019-12-13T22:03:39+00:00http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/personhttp://rainbowdash.net/user/62529drinkingponydrinkingponyAlcoholic BeastI think it is a bar ?http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/commenthttp://rainbowdash.net/notice/5467878@tiff sorry but I am not taking the blame on something you thought I implied, that is on you. At least you would agree with me that the big bad boogeyman should have a name. As I have clearly demonstrated, I know not enough about this whole lingo thing to actually be confused when at one moment we are talking about LGBT and the next about LGBTQ and after that about LGBTQ+. Next up we are talking about the LGBTQQIP2SAA ( and no I did not make that acronym up ) So yeah, I should deffinatly shut up right ? I might actually do more damage trying to understand what is what and say the wrong thing. It is not like you actually want to share ideas and thoughts and live in corcord or harmony with one another.@<span class="vcard"><a href="http://rainbowdash.net/user/4526" class="url" title="Tiff Spearman"><span class="fn nickname mention">tiff</span></a></span> sorry but I am not taking the blame on something you thought I implied, that is on you. At least you would agree with me that the big bad boogeyman should have a name.<br /><br />As I have clearly demonstrated, I know not enough about this whole lingo thing to actually be confused when at one moment we are talking about LGBT and the next about LGBTQ and after that about LGBTQ+. Next up we are talking about the LGBTQQIP2SAA ( and no I did not make that acronym up )<br /><br />So yeah, I should deffinatly shut up right ? I might actually do more damage trying to understand what is what and say the wrong thing. It is not like you actually want to share ideas and thoughts and live in corcord or harmony with one another.http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/post2019-12-12T19:04:22+00:002019-12-12T19:04:22+00:00http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/personhttp://rainbowdash.net/user/62529drinkingponydrinkingponyAlcoholic BeastI think it is a bar ?http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/commenthttp://rainbowdash.net/notice/5467865@adiwan 2080 TI ?@<span class="vcard"><a href="http://rainbowdash.net/user/1089" class="url" title="adiwan"><span class="fn nickname mention">adiwan</span></a></span> 2080 TI ?http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/post2019-12-12T14:55:16+00:002019-12-12T14:55:16+00:00http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/personhttp://rainbowdash.net/user/62529drinkingponydrinkingponyAlcoholic BeastI think it is a bar ?http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/commenthttp://rainbowdash.net/notice/5467857@thismightbeauser Well that is just horrible. But that seems to me just like 'your depressed transphobic relative' is going to need some help. After all if being in the presence of something someone hates is enough to send that person over the edge and take their own life then, whow boy. The rest of this family is probably just trying to protect the last nuggets of sanity that this transphobe has left.@<span class="vcard"><a href="http://rainbowdash.net/user/53973" class="url"><span class="fn nickname mention">thismightbeauser</span></a></span> Well that is just horrible. But that seems to me just like 'your depressed transphobic relative' is going to need some help. After all if being in the presence of something someone hates is enough to send that person over the edge and take their own life then, whow boy.<br /><br />The rest of this family is probably just trying to protect the last nuggets of sanity that this transphobe has left.http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/post2019-12-12T09:55:18+00:002019-12-12T09:55:18+00:00http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/personhttp://rainbowdash.net/user/62529drinkingponydrinkingponyAlcoholic BeastI think it is a bar ?http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/commenthttp://rainbowdash.net/notice/5467856@tiff The diabetes comment is rather simple. If you want to put people down in the history books because they had a hard life because their self-termination statistics are too high then too must we apply this to people who have crippling diabetes but choose to continue to walk the path of the fast food. Which is the wrong way to approach getting into the history books. If you have a problem and can not handle it alone, seek out help. There are more than enough ways means and places to find it. All those people who died because they told themselves that they were too proud to seek out help, it breaks my heart. "But you do not take your own life because you are trans" ofcourse not, but there are way too many people who start to walk the walk unprepared and find themselves in between a rock and a hard place eventually where suicide starts to seem like an acceptable step. That goes for both trans people and diabetic people whom eat themselves to death, they need help.@<span class="vcard"><a href="http://rainbowdash.net/user/4526" class="url" title="Tiff Spearman"><span class="fn nickname mention">tiff</span></a></span> The diabetes comment is rather simple. If you want to put people down in the history books because they had a hard life because their self-termination statistics are too high then too must we apply this to people who have crippling diabetes but choose to continue to walk the path of the fast food. Which is the wrong way to approach getting into the history books.<br /><br />If you have a problem and can not handle it alone, seek out help. There are more than enough ways means and places to find it.<br /><br />All those people who died because they told themselves that they were too proud to seek out help, it breaks my heart.<br /><br />"But you do not take your own life because you are trans" ofcourse not, but there are way too many people who start to walk the walk unprepared and find themselves in between a rock and a hard place eventually where suicide starts to seem like an acceptable step. That goes for both trans people and diabetic people whom eat themselves to death, they need help.http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/post2019-12-12T09:49:17+00:002019-12-12T09:49:17+00:00http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/personhttp://rainbowdash.net/user/62529drinkingponydrinkingponyAlcoholic BeastI think it is a bar ?http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/commenthttp://rainbowdash.net/notice/5467855@tiff LGBTQ Plus? Where did the plus suddenly come from? Regardless, if you think I am saying that their opression is insignificant because there is no KKK then you are just LOOKING for a problem without a name. History has shown us again and again that once there is a real problem it will receive a convenient name. How else are you going to talk about it ? There are MANY things punishable by death in some countries, that does not mean that any of it is ohkay. But the moment it alligns or opposes what you think or believe in is not the moment to talk about it. You can not solve it. I can only say that I agree or disagree. Violence is bad. That is my statement. Yet in the same breath you seem to be happy to send TERF's to the guillotine ? I am having a hard time to take any of that seriously, I guess I just have to choose you were joking. Do you think that looks well to the outside ? How is anyone to judge that ? I'll tell you what though, that is not tolerance. Ask Giovanni Gentile@<span class="vcard"><a href="http://rainbowdash.net/user/4526" class="url" title="Tiff Spearman"><span class="fn nickname mention">tiff</span></a></span> LGBTQ Plus? Where did the plus suddenly come from? Regardless, if you think I am saying that their opression is insignificant because there is no KKK then you are just LOOKING for a problem without a name.<br /><br />History has shown us again and again that once there is a real problem it will receive a convenient name. How else are you going to talk about it ?<br /><br />There are MANY things punishable by death in some countries, that does not mean that any of it is ohkay. But the moment it alligns or opposes what you think or believe in is not the moment to talk about it. You can not solve it. I can only say that I agree or disagree.<br /><br />Violence is bad. That is my statement. Yet in the same breath you seem to be happy to send TERF's to the guillotine ? I am having a hard time to take any of that seriously, I guess I just have to choose you were joking. Do you think that looks well to the outside ? How is anyone to judge that ? I'll tell you what though, that is not tolerance. Ask Giovanni Gentilehttp://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/post2019-12-12T09:36:24+00:002019-12-12T09:36:24+00:00http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/personhttp://rainbowdash.net/user/62529drinkingponydrinkingponyAlcoholic BeastI think it is a bar ?http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/commenthttp://rainbowdash.net/notice/5467827@mrmattimation I actually did do my homework on that one. http://rainbowdash.net/url/875381 ( I googled what the plural would be )@<span class="vcard"><a href="http://rainbowdash.net/user/17847" class="url" title="Angry Liberal"><span class="fn nickname mention">mrmattimation</span></a></span> I actually did do my homework on that one. <a href="http://rainbowdash.net/url/875381" title="https://www.wordhippo.com/what-is/the-plural-of/transvestite.html" rel="nofollow external">http://rainbowdash.net/url/875381</a> ( I googled what the plural would be )http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/post2019-12-12T00:25:48+00:002019-12-12T00:25:48+00:00http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/personhttp://rainbowdash.net/user/62529drinkingponydrinkingponyAlcoholic BeastI think it is a bar ?http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/commenthttp://rainbowdash.net/notice/5467826@oracle I just try to live my life by some easy rules. 1. Try not to be a cherry 2. If you are not sure about somehting, think it over ( which means rewriting things like forum posts a whole lot, if I had any currency for every time I did that I would be a millionaire by now ) 3. Smile 4. Try not to dwell on the bad things that happen, and they do happen, can not be avoided 5. Life will surprise you 6. Do not be a pessimist. Only I am affected by 2 - 6. But for number 1. If someone goes "Hey you are being a cherry right now" I get flustered, unnerved, ruffled, and sometimes almost visually upset. Because that is the LAST thing I want to be. I hope that makes sense. ( Also, just because I try not to be a cherry does not mean I do not butt heads sometimes. Matt can tell you all about that I guess. I mostly try to joke it over while going to my point )@<span class="vcard"><a href="http://rainbowdash.net/user/42999" class="url" title="Anna Wright"><span class="fn nickname mention">oracle</span></a></span> I just try to live my life by some easy rules.<br /><br />1. Try not to be a cherry<br /><br />2. If you are not sure about somehting, think it over ( which means rewriting things like forum posts a whole lot, if I had any currency for every time I did that I would be a millionaire by now )<br /><br />3. Smile<br /><br />4. Try not to dwell on the bad things that happen, and they do happen, can not be avoided<br /><br />5. Life will surprise you<br /><br />6. Do not be a pessimist.<br /><br />Only I am affected by 2 - 6. But for number 1. If someone goes "Hey you are being a cherry right now" I get flustered, unnerved, ruffled, and sometimes almost visually upset. Because that is the LAST thing I want to be.<br /><br />I hope that makes sense.<br /><br />( Also, just because I try not to be a cherry does not mean I do not butt heads sometimes. Matt can tell you all about that I guess. I mostly try to joke it over while going to my point )http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/post2019-12-12T00:24:25+00:002019-12-12T00:24:25+00:00http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/personhttp://rainbowdash.net/user/62529drinkingponydrinkingponyAlcoholic BeastI think it is a bar ?http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/commenthttp://rainbowdash.net/notice/5467824@oracle Why does this list begin in the 1980's ? and is there a list for other types of LGBT people, like Transvestites. I mean it IS blood-chilling to even think about but human population has DOUBLED since 1980 ( more or less ) and human interaction has gone through the roof compared to back then thanks to things like the internet and hookup apps and easier transportation. Not to mention that in the 1980's you probably had to explain to someone what trans was just like how I had to explain what pokemons were in 1999. There probably were a lot more people for that wiki list if the everyman knew what trans meant or was back then. Do not get me wrong, things like that should STOP. People deserve to live, even if some people hate other people. But if I hear less about Vanessa Campos as I do about Tayvon Martin. And one of those things almost happened next door for crying out loud. then I am going to question the statistics that can be over easily inferred.@<span class="vcard"><a href="http://rainbowdash.net/user/42999" class="url" title="Anna Wright"><span class="fn nickname mention">oracle</span></a></span> Why does this list begin in the 1980's ? and is there a list for other types of LGBT people, like Transvestites. I mean it IS blood-chilling to even think about but human population has DOUBLED since 1980 ( more or less ) and human interaction has gone through the roof compared to back then thanks to things like the internet and hookup apps and easier transportation.<br /><br />Not to mention that in the 1980's you probably had to explain to someone what trans was just like how I had to explain what pokemons were in 1999. There probably were a lot more people for that wiki list if the everyman knew what trans meant or was back then.<br /><br />Do not get me wrong, things like that should STOP. People deserve to live, even if some people hate other people. But if I hear less about Vanessa Campos as I do about Tayvon Martin. And one of those things almost happened next door for crying out loud. then I am going to question the statistics that can be over easily inferred.http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/post2019-12-12T00:17:38+00:002019-12-12T00:17:38+00:00http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/personhttp://rainbowdash.net/user/62529drinkingponydrinkingponyAlcoholic BeastI think it is a bar ?http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/commenthttp://rainbowdash.net/notice/5467820@oracle I thought it was ALWAYS offensive to ask. This is why I guess I am having such a hard time wrapping my head around it, there are multiple sources claiming different things, minor differences sure, but still different. Language barrier & differences in social interaction are not really helping either.@<span class="vcard"><a href="http://rainbowdash.net/user/42999" class="url" title="Anna Wright"><span class="fn nickname mention">oracle</span></a></span> I thought it was ALWAYS offensive to ask.<br /><br />This is why I guess I am having such a hard time wrapping my head around it, there are multiple sources claiming different things, minor differences sure, but still different.<br /><br />Language barrier & differences in social interaction are not really helping either.http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/post2019-12-11T23:56:38+00:002019-12-11T23:56:38+00:00http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/personhttp://rainbowdash.net/user/62529drinkingponydrinkingponyAlcoholic BeastI think it is a bar ?http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/commenthttp://rainbowdash.net/notice/5467816@mrmattimation Well, at least I am being consistent.@<span class="vcard"><a href="http://rainbowdash.net/user/17847" class="url" title="Angry Liberal"><span class="fn nickname mention">mrmattimation</span></a></span> Well, at least I am being consistent.http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/post2019-12-11T23:53:46+00:002019-12-11T23:53:46+00:00http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/personhttp://rainbowdash.net/user/62529drinkingponydrinkingponyAlcoholic BeastI think it is a bar ?http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/commenthttp://rainbowdash.net/notice/5467815@tiff > you didn't say sorry I am very sorry for deadnaming someone, it was wrong of me, and even though I did not know it was, I should not have done it. I have read up on it and it is a very very bad thing, especially in the USA. I will do my utmost best to never do it again. and I am also sorry that it got lost in the soup of rewriting. > you say trans people haven't had a hard history yet bring up suicide statistics. While terrible, there is not somehting like the KKK for LGBT people that I know of. or a targeted genocide. The terrible things that happen around LGBT places are usually carried by the media like they are huge things and how we should support the LGBT members that you know IRL. On the other hand, the way you use suicide statistics as a way of measuring history. Diabetes would like to get in on history. Which just does not sit right with me. > i assumed you knew I did hear that name before, but only on SouthPark, I thought it was a mockery. Again, my apologies.@<span class="vcard"><a href="http://rainbowdash.net/user/4526" class="url" title="Tiff Spearman"><span class="fn nickname mention">tiff</span></a></span><br /><br />> you didn't say sorry<br /><br />I am very sorry for deadnaming someone, it was wrong of me, and even though I did not know it was, I should not have done it. I have read up on it and it is a very very bad thing, especially in the USA. I will do my utmost best to never do it again. and I am also sorry that it got lost in the soup of rewriting.<br /><br />> you say trans people haven't had a hard history yet bring up suicide statistics.<br /><br />While terrible, there is not somehting like the KKK for LGBT people that I know of. or a targeted genocide. The terrible things that happen around LGBT places are usually carried by the media like they are huge things and how we should support the LGBT members that you know IRL.<br /><br />On the other hand, the way you use suicide statistics as a way of measuring history. Diabetes would like to get in on history. Which just does not sit right with me.<br /><br />> i assumed you knew<br /><br />I did hear that name before, but only on SouthPark, I thought it was a mockery. Again, my apologies.http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/post2019-12-11T23:51:57+00:002019-12-11T23:51:57+00:00http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/personhttp://rainbowdash.net/user/62529drinkingponydrinkingponyAlcoholic BeastI think it is a bar ?http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/commenthttp://rainbowdash.net/notice/5467809@mrmattimation If you do not understand how or why the things are the way they are. Then you are no better than a cog in the machine, a sheep, or a tool. Note... I said "No better than". Not whatever you are going to twist it in.@<span class="vcard"><a href="http://rainbowdash.net/user/17847" class="url" title="Angry Liberal"><span class="fn nickname mention">mrmattimation</span></a></span> If you do not understand how or why the things are the way they are. Then you are no better than a cog in the machine, a sheep, or a tool.<br /><br />Note... I said "No better than". Not whatever you are going to twist it in.http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/post2019-12-11T23:40:14+00:002019-12-11T23:40:14+00:00http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/personhttp://rainbowdash.net/user/62529drinkingponydrinkingponyAlcoholic BeastI think it is a bar ?http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/commenthttp://rainbowdash.net/notice/5467806@tiff > i informed you of your mistake and you're going out of your way to not correct yourself. I said sorry and I said that I'll try better so I will not deadname anyone ever again. That somehow does not count ? Then what does ? > there's no esoteric quality to trans identity, Yet at the same time they have a tough history, somehow. > people are more than happy to tell you their pronouns if they don't make them known by default. Yet you just had to tell me that Caitlyn's pronoun is she. You see the disconnect here ?@<span class="vcard"><a href="http://rainbowdash.net/user/4526" class="url" title="Tiff Spearman"><span class="fn nickname mention">tiff</span></a></span> <br /><br />> i informed you of your mistake and you're going out of your way to not correct yourself.<br /><br />I said sorry and I said that I'll try better so I will not deadname anyone ever again. <br /><br />That somehow does not count ? Then what does ?<br /><br />> there's no esoteric quality to trans identity,<br /><br />Yet at the same time they have a tough history, somehow.<br /><br />> people are more than happy to tell you their pronouns if they don't make them known by default.<br /><br />Yet you just had to tell me that Caitlyn's pronoun is she.<br /><br />You see the disconnect here ?http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/post2019-12-11T23:36:25+00:002019-12-11T23:36:25+00:00http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/personhttp://rainbowdash.net/user/62529drinkingponydrinkingponyAlcoholic BeastI think it is a bar ?http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/commenthttp://rainbowdash.net/notice/5467802@mrmattimation Well good for you. You also knew what deadnaming was, AND the name that she goes by NOW. So effectively you might as well be cheating.@<span class="vcard"><a href="http://rainbowdash.net/user/17847" class="url" title="Angry Liberal"><span class="fn nickname mention">mrmattimation</span></a></span> Well good for you. You also knew what deadnaming was, AND the name that she goes by NOW. So effectively you might as well be cheating.http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/post2019-12-11T23:33:17+00:002019-12-11T23:33:17+00:00http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/personhttp://rainbowdash.net/user/62529drinkingponydrinkingponyAlcoholic BeastI think it is a bar ?http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/commenthttp://rainbowdash.net/notice/5467798@mrmattimation From the things I just read about deadnaming, Asking for someones pronouns is offensive.@<span class="vcard"><a href="http://rainbowdash.net/user/17847" class="url" title="Angry Liberal"><span class="fn nickname mention">mrmattimation</span></a></span> From the things I just read about deadnaming, Asking for someones pronouns is offensive.http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/post2019-12-11T23:31:12+00:002019-12-11T23:31:12+00:00http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/personhttp://rainbowdash.net/user/62529drinkingponydrinkingponyAlcoholic BeastI think it is a bar ?http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/commenthttp://rainbowdash.net/notice/5467797@tiff Really, you truely want to know why ? Because [enter pronoun here] is being named ( aparently deadnamed ) quite a lot in both support groups AND by people in my day to day life as a proud example of how [enter pronoun here] is brave for doing what that person is doing. If you have any idea how much people I have seen that either lack the discipline or the money to carry forth transitioning all the way then you would hate [enter pronoun here] probably just as much as I do. In terms of statue, its an idol thing, everyone with aspirations want to be like the idol, and the failure rate is too damn high and actually leads to suicide in quite a few people I knew personally. And at this point I am not even sure which name I remember of those people and it is seriously messing with my mind ever since I learned what "deadnaming" is.@<span class="vcard"><a href="http://rainbowdash.net/user/4526" class="url" title="Tiff Spearman"><span class="fn nickname mention">tiff</span></a></span> Really, you truely want to know why ? Because [enter pronoun here] is being named ( aparently deadnamed ) quite a lot in both support groups AND by people in my day to day life as a proud example of how [enter pronoun here] is brave for doing what that person is doing.<br /><br />If you have any idea how much people I have seen that either lack the discipline or the money to carry forth transitioning all the way then you would hate [enter pronoun here] probably just as much as I do.<br /><br />In terms of statue, its an idol thing, everyone with aspirations want to be like the idol, and the failure rate is too damn high and actually leads to suicide in quite a few people I knew personally. <br /><br />And at this point I am not even sure which name I remember of those people and it is seriously messing with my mind ever since I learned what "deadnaming" is.http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/post2019-12-11T23:28:43+00:002019-12-11T23:28:43+00:00http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/personhttp://rainbowdash.net/user/62529drinkingponydrinkingponyAlcoholic BeastI think it is a bar ?http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/commenthttp://rainbowdash.net/notice/5467795@mrmattimation Well go learn my prounouns then, biggot.@<span class="vcard"><a href="http://rainbowdash.net/user/17847" class="url" title="Angry Liberal"><span class="fn nickname mention">mrmattimation</span></a></span> Well go learn my prounouns then, biggot.http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/post2019-12-11T23:24:53+00:002019-12-11T23:24:53+00:00http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/personhttp://rainbowdash.net/user/62529drinkingponydrinkingponyAlcoholic BeastI think it is a bar ?http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/commenthttp://rainbowdash.net/notice/5467791@tiff I did not even knew the up to date name untill a couple of minutes ago. What is next ? Me being upset at you for not getting my pronouns right ?@<span class="vcard"><a href="http://rainbowdash.net/user/4526" class="url" title="Tiff Spearman"><span class="fn nickname mention">tiff</span></a></span> I did not even knew the up to date name untill a couple of minutes ago.<br /><br />What is next ? Me being upset at you for not getting my pronouns right ?http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/post2019-12-11T23:19:59+00:002019-12-11T23:19:59+00:00http://activitystrea.ms/schema/1.0/personhttp://rainbowdash.net/user/62529drinkingponydrinkingponyAlcoholic BeastI think it is a bar ?