{"generator":"StatusNet 1.0.1","title":"Conversation","count":6,"totalItems":6,"items":[{"actor":{"displayName":"Narwhal","id":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/user\/28430","avatarLinks":[{"url":"http:\/\/av.rdn.io\/avatar\/28430-410-20210317231539.jpeg","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/jpeg","width":"410","height":"410"},{"url":"http:\/\/av.rdn.io\/avatar\/28430-96-20210317231539.jpeg","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/jpeg","width":"96","height":"96"},{"url":"http:\/\/av.rdn.io\/avatar\/28430-48-20210317231539.jpeg","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/jpeg","width":"48","height":"48"},{"url":"http:\/\/av.rdn.io\/avatar\/28430-24-20210317231539.jpeg","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/jpeg","width":"24","height":"24"}],"image":{"url":"http:\/\/av.rdn.io\/avatar\/28430-96-20210317231539.jpeg","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/jpeg","width":"96","height":"96"},"type":"person","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/user\/28430","statusnet:profile_info":{"local_id":"28430"},"contact":{"preferredUsername":"narwhal","displayName":"Narwhal","note":"cool","addresses":{"formatted":"I come from a land down under"}}},"content":"@redenchilada<\/span><\/a><\/span> Based on the situation you've described to me it seems to be your best course of action, better to cut things off now than to lead them on too.","body":"@redenchilada<\/span><\/a><\/span> Based on the situation you've described to me it seems to be your best course of action, better to cut things off now than to lead them on too.","id":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3991164","object":{"displayName":"@redenchilada Based on the situation you've described to me it seems to be your best course of action, better to cut things off now than to lead them on too.","id":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3991164","type":"comment","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3991164"},"to":[{"objectType":"person","id":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/user\/798","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/user\/798"}],"context":{"inReplyTo":{"objectType":"note","id":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3991160","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3991160"},"conversation":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/conversation\/3426776"},"published":"2015-09-23T06:01:30+00:00","postedTime":"2015-09-23T06:01:30+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"Rainbow Dash Network","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/"},"title":"@redenchilada Based on the situation you've described to me it seems to be your best course of action, better to cut things off now than to lead them on too.","verb":"post","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3991164","statusnet:notice_info":{"local_id":"3991164","source":"MuSTArDroid<\/a>","source_link":"https:\/\/launchpad.net\/mustardroid"}},{"actor":{"displayName":"RedEnchilada (notice the lack of a space)","id":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/user\/798","avatarLinks":[{"url":"http:\/\/av.rdn.io\/avatar\/798-48-20160823021339.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":"48","height":"48"},{"url":"http:\/\/av.rdn.io\/avatar\/798-96-20160823021339.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":"96","height":"96"},{"url":"http:\/\/av.rdn.io\/avatar\/798-48-20160823021339.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":"48","height":"48"},{"url":"http:\/\/av.rdn.io\/avatar\/798-24-20160823021339.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":"24","height":"24"}],"image":{"url":"http:\/\/av.rdn.io\/avatar\/798-96-20160823021339.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":"96","height":"96"},"type":"person","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/user\/798","statusnet:profile_info":{"local_id":"798"},"contact":{"preferredUsername":"redenchilada","displayName":"RedEnchilada (notice the lack of a space)","note":"I used to break RDN.","addresses":{"formatted":"Houston, TX"},"urls":[{"type":"homepage","value":"http:\/\/lyrawearspants.com","primary":"true"}]}},"content":"@northernnarwhal<\/span><\/a><\/span> You're probably right. I don't like flat-out rejecting people but I should probably stop beating around the bush with it","body":"@northernnarwhal<\/span><\/a><\/span> You're probably right. I don't like flat-out rejecting people but I should probably stop beating around the bush with it","id":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3991160","object":{"displayName":"@northernnarwhal You're probably right. I don't like flat-out rejecting people but I should probably stop beating around the bush with it","id":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3991160","type":"comment","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3991160"},"to":[{"objectType":"person","id":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/user\/28430","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/user\/28430"}],"context":{"inReplyTo":{"objectType":"note","id":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3991158","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3991158"},"conversation":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/conversation\/3426776"},"published":"2015-09-23T05:49:01+00:00","postedTime":"2015-09-23T05:49:01+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"Rainbow Dash Network","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/"},"title":"@northernnarwhal You're probably right. I don't like flat-out rejecting people but I should probably stop beating around the bush with it","verb":"post","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3991160","statusnet:notice_info":{"local_id":"3991160","source":"web"}},{"actor":{"displayName":"Narwhal","id":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/user\/28430","avatarLinks":[{"url":"http:\/\/av.rdn.io\/avatar\/28430-410-20210317231539.jpeg","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/jpeg","width":"410","height":"410"},{"url":"http:\/\/av.rdn.io\/avatar\/28430-96-20210317231539.jpeg","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/jpeg","width":"96","height":"96"},{"url":"http:\/\/av.rdn.io\/avatar\/28430-48-20210317231539.jpeg","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/jpeg","width":"48","height":"48"},{"url":"http:\/\/av.rdn.io\/avatar\/28430-24-20210317231539.jpeg","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/jpeg","width":"24","height":"24"}],"image":{"url":"http:\/\/av.rdn.io\/avatar\/28430-96-20210317231539.jpeg","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/jpeg","width":"96","height":"96"},"type":"person","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/user\/28430","statusnet:profile_info":{"local_id":"28430"},"contact":{"preferredUsername":"narwhal","displayName":"Narwhal","note":"cool","addresses":{"formatted":"I come from a land down under"}}},"content":"@redenchilada<\/span><\/a><\/span> The short solution is to make up some kind of excuse as to why you're unable to work with him, but the larger and more actualized solution is that there's no real easy way to let someone down like that easy. If you really don't want them working with you your best bet is to phrase that succinctly, but also try to be non-confrontational about it.","body":"@redenchilada<\/span><\/a><\/span> The short solution is to make up some kind of excuse as to why you're unable to work with him, but the larger and more actualized solution is that there's no real easy way to let someone down like that easy. If you really don't want them working with you your best bet is to phrase that succinctly, but also try to be non-confrontational about it.","id":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3991158","object":{"displayName":"@redenchilada The short solution is to make up some kind of excuse as to why you're unable to work with him, but the larger and more actualized solution is that there's no real easy way to let someone down like that easy. If you really don't want them working with you your best bet is to phrase that succinctly, but also try to be non-confrontational about it.","id":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3991158","type":"comment","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3991158"},"to":[{"objectType":"person","id":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/user\/798","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/user\/798"}],"context":{"inReplyTo":{"objectType":"note","id":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3991153","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3991153"},"conversation":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/conversation\/3426776"},"published":"2015-09-23T05:45:39+00:00","postedTime":"2015-09-23T05:45:39+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"Rainbow Dash Network","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/"},"title":"@redenchilada The short solution is to make up some kind of excuse as to why you're unable to work with him, but the larger and more actualized solution is that there's no real easy way to let someone down like that easy. If you really don't want them working with you your best bet is to phrase that succinctly, but also try to be non-confrontational about it.","verb":"post","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3991158","statusnet:notice_info":{"local_id":"3991158","source":"MuSTArDroid<\/a>","source_link":"https:\/\/launchpad.net\/mustardroid"}},{"actor":{"displayName":"RedEnchilada (notice the lack of a space)","id":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/user\/798","avatarLinks":[{"url":"http:\/\/av.rdn.io\/avatar\/798-48-20160823021339.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":"48","height":"48"},{"url":"http:\/\/av.rdn.io\/avatar\/798-96-20160823021339.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":"96","height":"96"},{"url":"http:\/\/av.rdn.io\/avatar\/798-48-20160823021339.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":"48","height":"48"},{"url":"http:\/\/av.rdn.io\/avatar\/798-24-20160823021339.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":"24","height":"24"}],"image":{"url":"http:\/\/av.rdn.io\/avatar\/798-96-20160823021339.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":"96","height":"96"},"type":"person","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/user\/798","statusnet:profile_info":{"local_id":"798"},"contact":{"preferredUsername":"redenchilada","displayName":"RedEnchilada (notice the lack of a space)","note":"I used to break RDN.","addresses":{"formatted":"Houston, TX"},"urls":[{"type":"homepage","value":"http:\/\/lyrawearspants.com","primary":"true"}]}},"content":"@northernnarwhal<\/span><\/a><\/span> Unfortunately, the topic was about a site that I ran and let die and a group that he's a part of (the two used to be associated before I was involved with the former). When I tried to just stop talking to the guy (I hadn't spoken to him before that, and only spoke to him for that conversation) he posted an announcement to said group that gave a completely bogus interpretation of what happened and had a blatant "you guys tell Red to re-add me so we can get this thing in motion!", and I don't wanna just be an ass and call him out on it. I'm trying to figure out a polite way to say "I'm not interested" while making sure he gets the message.","body":"@northernnarwhal<\/span><\/a><\/span> Unfortunately, the topic was about a site that I ran and let die and a group that he's a part of (the two used to be associated before I was involved with the former). When I tried to just stop talking to the guy (I hadn't spoken to him before that, and only spoke to him for that conversation) he posted an announcement to said group that gave a completely bogus interpretation of what happened and had a blatant "you guys tell Red to re-add me so we can get this thing in motion!", and I don't wanna just be an ass and call him out on it. I'm trying to figure out a polite way to say "I'm not interested" while making sure he gets the message.","id":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3991153","object":{"displayName":"@northernnarwhal Unfortunately, the topic was about a site that I ran and let die and a group that he's a part of (the two used to be associated before I was involved with the former). When I tried to just stop talking to the guy (I hadn't spoken to him before that, and only spoke to him for that conversation) he posted an announcement to said group that gave a completely bogus interpretation of what happened and had a blatant \"you guys tell Red to re-add me so we can get this thing in motion!\", and I don't wanna just be an ass and call him out on it. I'm trying to figure out a polite way to say \"I'm not interested\" while making sure he gets the message.","id":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3991153","type":"comment","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3991153"},"to":[{"objectType":"person","id":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/user\/28430","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/user\/28430"}],"context":{"inReplyTo":{"objectType":"note","id":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3991147","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3991147"},"conversation":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/conversation\/3426776"},"published":"2015-09-23T05:37:52+00:00","postedTime":"2015-09-23T05:37:52+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"Rainbow Dash Network","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/"},"title":"@northernnarwhal Unfortunately, the topic was about a site that I ran and let die and a group that he's a part of (the two used to be associated before I was involved with the former). When I tried to just stop talking to the guy (I hadn't spoken to him before that, and only spoke to him for that conversation) he posted an announcement to said group that gave a completely bogus interpretation of what happened and had a blatant \"you guys tell Red to re-add me so we can get this thing in motion!\", and I don't wanna just be an ass and call him out on it. I'm trying to figure out a polite way to say \"I'm not interested\" while making sure he gets the 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come from a land down under"}}},"content":"@redenchilada<\/span><\/a><\/span> Just politely end the conversation or change the topic, no point in continuing something like that.","body":"@redenchilada<\/span><\/a><\/span> Just politely end the conversation or change the topic, no point in continuing something like that.","id":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3991147","object":{"displayName":"@redenchilada Just politely end the conversation or change the topic, no point in continuing something like that.","id":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3991147","type":"comment","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3991147"},"to":[{"objectType":"person","id":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/user\/798","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/user\/798"}],"context":{"inReplyTo":{"objectType":"note","id":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3991141","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3991141"},"conversation":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/conversation\/3426776"},"published":"2015-09-23T05:31:03+00:00","postedTime":"2015-09-23T05:31:03+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"Rainbow Dash Network","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/"},"title":"@redenchilada Just politely end the conversation or change the topic, no point in continuing something like that.","verb":"post","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3991147","statusnet:notice_info":{"local_id":"3991147","source":"MuSTArDroid<\/a>","source_link":"https:\/\/launchpad.net\/mustardroid"}},{"actor":{"displayName":"RedEnchilada 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