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ceruleansparkold: @chiefanchor I'm glad things turned out to be not entirely terrible.
ceruleansparkold's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 20:08:30 UTC
@chiefanchor I'm glad things turned out to be not entirely terrible.
zeldatra: @chiefanchor Good for you two! :)
zeldatra's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 20:07:45 UTC
@chiefanchor Good for you two! :)
minti's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 18:00:43 UTC
@chiefanchor You too. :p
minti's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 17:59:24 UTC
@chiefanchor Good luck!
ceruleansparkold: @chiefanchor It's not easy to come to terms with because emotions generally do not follow logical thought, but if you wanna talk to someone until such a point you've worked it through in your own mind, you can DM me even without being subscribed to me.
ceruleansparkold's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 13:17:28 UTC
@chiefanchor It's not easy to come to terms with because emotions generally do not follow logical thought, but if you wanna talk to someone until such a point you've worked it through in your own mind, you can DM me even without being subscribed to me.
ceruleansparkold: @chiefanchor If this was a sitcom, the solution would be a sequence of increasingly overblown romantic gestures until she suddenly decides that actually she does have feelings for you after all. Then the indie love ballad swells up as we cut to a montage. But that's not how real life works, a lot of people will say cut your losses, move on, accept that it's not happening. Maybe. Mabye not. Right now you're obviously hurting badly, and you feel like you need to internalise an answer right now for the sake of closure, but I'd say try something different: Do nothing. Come to terms with your hurt, but don't close it off. Put some distance between you and the pain before you decide where you want to go.
ceruleansparkold's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 12:30:11 UTC
@chiefanchor If this was a sitcom, the solution would be a sequence of increasingly overblown romantic gestures until she suddenly decides that actually she does have feelings for you after all. Then the indie love ballad swells up as we cut to a montage. But that's not how real life works, a lot of people will say cut your losses, move on, accept that it's not happening. Maybe. Mabye not. Right now you're obviously hurting badly, and you feel like you need to internalise an answer right now for the sake of closure, but I'd say try something different: Do nothing. Come to terms with your hurt, but don't close it off. Put some distance between you and the pain before you decide where you want to go.
liquidusmira: @chiefanchor That's definitely not the way to go about it so I don't know what crazy type of person was giving you advice.
liquidusmira's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 12:22:37 UTC
@chiefanchor That's definitely not the way to go about it so I don't know what crazy type of person was giving you advice.
liquidusmira: @chiefanchor I woke up like that yesterday. It made my day pretty bad.
liquidusmira's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 12:18:14 UTC
@chiefanchor I woke up like that yesterday. It made my day pretty bad.
pony: @chiefanchor it's hard to be happy alone. Even with good coping mechanisms there'll be a low period to endure after any relationship ends.
pony's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 06:26:57 UTC
@chiefanchor it's hard to be happy alone. Even with good coping mechanisms there'll be a low period to endure after any relationship ends.
nerthos: @chiefanchor Oh well. Guess some don't see it as a natural thing.
nerthos's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 05:29:39 UTC
@chiefanchor Oh well. Guess some don't see it as a natural thing.
redenchilada: @chiefanchor Well, I can't really offer any better advice, since I've never really been in a serious relationship. :/ I mean... I could offer well wishes, I guess?
redenchilada's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 05:25:32 UTC
@chiefanchor Well, I can't really offer any better advice, since I've never really been in a serious relationship. :/ I mean... I could offer well wishes, I guess?
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wafers: @chiefanchor I honestly had a similar experience but didn't get attatched. I'm still friends with her and now It's like whatever.
wafers's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 05:19:29 UTC
@chiefanchor I honestly had a similar experience but didn't get attatched. I'm still friends with her and now It's like whatever.
redenchilada: @chiefanchor You should never take relationship advice from someone like me, but in my honest opinion, if she knows how you feel about her and isn't returning the favor, it might be better to move on.
redenchilada's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 05:14:36 UTC
@chiefanchor You should never take relationship advice from someone like me, but in my honest opinion, if she knows how you feel about her and isn't returning the favor, it might be better to move on.
wafers: @chiefanchor Ok, I was just bored. In all seriousness I can't give you any advice you would want to hear that Nerthos didin't say.
wafers's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 05:13:49 UTC
@chiefanchor Ok, I was just bored. In all seriousness I can't give you any advice you would want to hear that Nerthos didin't say.
wafers: @chiefanchor Not if you "accidentally" spill maple syrup on her. It would be worse to waste perfectly good syrup.
wafers's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 05:11:51 UTC
@chiefanchor Not if you "accidentally" spill maple syrup on her. It would be worse to waste perfectly good syrup.
wafers: @chiefanchor I said lick her neck, not ram it into her when she's not looking. Geez
wafers's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 05:10:18 UTC
@chiefanchor I said lick her neck, not ram it into her when she's not looking. Geez
wafers's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 05:06:19 UTC
@chiefanchor Lick her neck
nerthos: @chiefanchor She played with you. Strike back. Shape her toughts.
nerthos's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 05:05:47 UTC
@chiefanchor She played with you. Strike back. Shape her toughts.
nerthos: @chiefanchor Well, my solution is guaranteed to work, as long as you're willing to override her will with your own in case something goes wrong.
nerthos's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 05:03:13 UTC
@chiefanchor Well, my solution is guaranteed to work, as long as you're willing to override her will with your own in case something goes wrong.
scribus: @chiefanchor Well, that's how you actually do solve it. Get so far away you've completely forgotten the relationship itself. #DoNotTakeMyAdvice #IAmNotARoleModel
scribus's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 05:02:31 UTC
@chiefanchor Well, that's how you actually do solve it. Get so far away you've completely forgotten the relationship itself. #DoNotTakeMyAdvice #IAmNotARoleModel
wafers: @chiefanchor Everyone I see who's with someone always has relationship problems. I don't understand why people always get into them.
wafers's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 05:01:37 UTC
@chiefanchor Everyone I see who's with someone always has relationship problems. I don't understand why people always get into them.
pony: @chiefanchor @mushi Professionals who study relationships and mental health will be able to guide you better than I can, but what I've learned from them in classes and by personal experience is that you'll be most ready for a new relationship when you're *happy* by yourself but still willing and open to new relationships. There's a lot more to say about it, of course, but that's the gist.
pony's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 04:20:10 UTC
@chiefanchor @mushi Professionals who study relationships and mental health will be able to guide you better than I can, but what I've learned from them in classes and by personal experience is that you'll be most ready for a new relationship when you're happy by yourself but still willing and open to new relationships. There's a lot more to say about it, of course, but that's the gist.
mushi: @chiefanchor ok, i didnt use my best words anyway, But good luck with that
mushi's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 02:16:45 UTC
@chiefanchor ok, i didnt use my best words anyway, But good luck with that
mushi: @chiefanchor sorry if i sounded harsh to you, by the way....
mushi's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 02:11:41 UTC
@chiefanchor sorry if i sounded harsh to you, by the way....
zeldatra: @chiefanchor Understandable. Well, I don't know what to tell you, other than if it isn't working it isn't working.
zeldatra's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 02:03:53 UTC
@chiefanchor Understandable. Well, I don't know what to tell you, other than if it isn't working it isn't working.
nerthos: @chiefanchor Well I tend to deal with those situations by psychological manipulation, and a handcrafted enviorment is the simplest way to do it.
nerthos's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 02:02:13 UTC
@chiefanchor Well I tend to deal with those situations by psychological manipulation, and a handcrafted enviorment is the simplest way to do it.
zeldatra: @chiefanchor Do you truly love this girl?
zeldatra's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 02:01:59 UTC
@chiefanchor Do you truly love this girl?
nerthos: @chiefanchor Well, it's simple, you love her, then you have to confront her in a moment and set of conditions shaped by you to your advantage. With that I mean, ask her out, but not anywhere and anytime, but in a moment when she'll feel compelled to say yes.
nerthos's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 01:57:37 UTC
@chiefanchor Well, it's simple, you love her, then you have to confront her in a moment and set of conditions shaped by you to your advantage. With that I mean, ask her out, but not anywhere and anytime, but in a moment when she'll feel compelled to say yes.
mushi: @chiefanchor just telling you my reason to not try to help you
mushi's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 01:57:12 UTC
@chiefanchor just telling you my reason to not try to help you
zeldatra: @chiefanchor That's a difficult question to answer. I myself have never had a serious relationship. Sure, there have been small things I've had with a girl, but it's never been something that's made me... well, truely happy. I might get a lot of flak and shrapnel for this, but have you considered something like eHarmony? I mean, it works for a lot of people, so it's worth a shot?
zeldatra's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 01:55:54 UTC
@chiefanchor That's a difficult question to answer. I myself have never had a serious relationship. Sure, there have been small things I've had with a girl, but it's never been something that's made me... well, truely happy. I might get a lot of flak and shrapnel for this, but have you considered something like eHarmony? I mean, it works for a lot of people, so it's worth a shot?
mushi: @chiefanchor as i said, ask @pony about it, he seems to lnow a lot about this, but you'd have to wait untill he sees your message. I seriously dont know *_/ANYTHING/_* ABOUT THIS SUBJECT
mushi's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 01:53:55 UTC
@chiefanchor as i said, ask @pony about it, he seems to lnow a lot about this, but you'd have to wait untill he sees your message. I seriously dont know ANYTHING ABOUT THIS SUBJECT
mushi: @chiefanchor i'd tell you to ask @pony, but he is not here
mushi's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 01:38:23 UTC
@chiefanchor i'd tell you to ask @pony, but he is not here
chiefanchor: @chiefanchor So, here's the situation: I've been led on - and the girl-in-question apparently led herself on as well - and have had the first "relationship" I've had in seven years just dissolve. I still have feelings for her, and this will not change at all. Where do I go from here?
chiefanchor's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 01:37:16 UTC
@chiefanchor So, here's the situation: I've been led on - and the girl-in-question apparently led herself on as well - and have had the first "relationship" I've had in seven years just dissolve. I still have feelings for her, and this will not change at all. Where do I go from here?
liquidusmira: @chiefanchor I'm sorry. There are definitely better people to ask than me to help with that. People more experienced and in a better state of mind than I.
liquidusmira's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 01:33:27 UTC
@chiefanchor I'm sorry. There are definitely better people to ask than me to help with that. People more experienced and in a better state of mind than I.
liquidusmira: @chiefanchor That's a horrible feeling. I don't know what to say. Sorry man. I hope you can deal with it in a healthy way.
liquidusmira's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 01:29:18 UTC
@chiefanchor That's a horrible feeling. I don't know what to say. Sorry man. I hope you can deal with it in a healthy way.
mushi: @chiefanchor that is why i donr do relationships... yeah, sure, that is why.....
mushi's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 01:25:42 UTC
@chiefanchor that is why i donr do relationships... yeah, sure, that is why.....
liquidusmira: @chiefanchor I've been on both ends of that, buddy. It stings, sure, but it does fade. Although it's hard to still see the person in the same way I guess.
liquidusmira's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 01:25:31 UTC
@chiefanchor I've been on both ends of that, buddy. It stings, sure, but it does fade. Although it's hard to still see the person in the same way I guess.
zeldatra: @chiefanchor Aw, man, I know how that feels. Of course, I'm a stupid teenager, so relationships I guess aren't as big a deal for me. Hope you feel better soon. :)
zeldatra's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 01:24:53 UTC
@chiefanchor Aw, man, I know how that feels. Of course, I'm a stupid teenager, so relationships I guess aren't as big a deal for me. Hope you feel better soon. :)
mushi's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 01:22:14 UTC
@chiefanchor =(
liquidusmira: @chiefanchor That's got to sting, man. I'm sorry.
liquidusmira's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 01:21:11 UTC
@chiefanchor That's got to sting, man. I'm sorry.
maverick: @chiefanchor I dash wut Eva I want because I Kan. Kome at mee bra
maverick's status on Sunday, 10-Mar-13 06:07:22 UTC
@chiefanchor I dash wut Eva I want because I Kan. Kome at mee bra
liquidusmira: @chiefanchor That would be nice I imagine.
liquidusmira's status on Sunday, 10-Mar-13 05:38:56 UTC
@chiefanchor That would be nice I imagine.
liquidusmira: @chiefanchor Nice. I already had my week-long vacation.
liquidusmira's status on Sunday, 10-Mar-13 05:37:46 UTC
@chiefanchor Nice. I already had my week-long vacation.
zeldatra: @chiefanchor Daaawww, that's sweet.
zeldatra's status on Friday, 08-Mar-13 21:42:36 UTC
@chiefanchor Daaawww, that's sweet.
nerthos's status on Friday, 08-Mar-13 05:11:30 UTC
@chiefanchor Pretty much.
nerthos: @chiefanchor But it's probably a crit on yourself
nerthos's status on Friday, 08-Mar-13 05:09:40 UTC
@chiefanchor But it's probably a crit on yourself
nerthos: @chiefanchor Confirm? Must be a >3.0 thing.
nerthos's status on Friday, 08-Mar-13 05:09:23 UTC
@chiefanchor Confirm? Must be a >3.0 thing.
car: @chiefanchor Man, you gotta promise me if the opportunity arises..
car's status on Friday, 08-Mar-13 01:16:17 UTC
@chiefanchor Man, you gotta promise me if the opportunity arises..