Updates from chiefanchor on Rainbow Dash Network!
chiefanchor: @ceruleanspark Yeah, we had one of those really necessary talks today - she had other things to get off of her chest herself, so she was able to do that, and I was able to get us to communicate better in the process - particularly on emotional subjects.
chiefanchor's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 20:10:23 UTC
@ceruleanspark Yeah, we had one of those really necessary talks today - she had other things to get off of her chest herself, so she was able to do that, and I was able to get us to communicate better in the process - particularly on emotional subjects.
chiefanchor: Situation update: apparently the leading-on that my "girlfriend" put me through, and the relationship that existed for three days, were equally far from the truth. There are feelings there, but she wasn't ready to act on them - leading to an awkward situation. We'll be giving it another shot when she feels she's ready.
chiefanchor's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 20:06:59 UTC
Situation update: apparently the leading-on that my "girlfriend" put me through, and the relationship that existed for three days, were equally far from the truth. There are feelings there, but she wasn't ready to act on them - leading to an awkward situation. We'll be giving it another shot when she feels she's ready.
chiefanchor: @minti thanks - and good to see you again
chiefanchor's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 18:00:32 UTC
@minti thanks - and good to see you again
chiefanchor: Well, wish me luck. Going to see if I can talk about part of this problem at least.
chiefanchor's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 17:59:06 UTC
Well, wish me luck. Going to see if I can talk about part of this problem at least.
chiefanchor: @ceruleanspark Again, thanks. It's all very much appreciated.
chiefanchor's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 13:39:55 UTC
@ceruleanspark Again, thanks. It's all very much appreciated.
chiefanchor: @ceruleanspark Thanks for the thought-out answer. I'm already trying to figure this out, but it's not easy to come to terms with this.
chiefanchor's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 12:54:40 UTC
@ceruleanspark Thanks for the thought-out answer. I'm already trying to figure this out, but it's not easy to come to terms with this.
chiefanchor: @yodelerty i don't know, though. I know how I feel, and I came to terms with that a bit, but I was seriously infuriated by some of the "advice" I was given. Manipulate someone into loving me? Do something that can be considered a crime, and will no doubt isolate me from mst of my friends? Ugh...
chiefanchor's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 12:21:03 UTC
@yodelerty i don't know, though. I know how I feel, and I came to terms with that a bit, but I was seriously infuriated by some of the "advice" I was given. Manipulate someone into loving me? Do something that can be considered a crime, and will no doubt isolate me from mst of my friends? Ugh...
chiefanchor: Well, I got some sleep, but that doesn't seem to have helped. I woke up feeling about as bad as I felt last night.
chiefanchor's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 12:17:02 UTC
Well, I got some sleep, but that doesn't seem to have helped. I woke up feeling about as bad as I felt last night.
chiefanchor: @hoit21 Oh, just something that caused me to rail into a few people who were giving sarcastic, or even seriously messed-up, advice on the matter.
chiefanchor's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 06:21:23 UTC
@hoit21 Oh, just something that caused me to rail into a few people who were giving sarcastic, or even seriously messed-up, advice on the matter.
chiefanchor: @hoit21 I'm sorry, I killed it with my troubles.
chiefanchor's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 06:19:50 UTC
@hoit21 I'm sorry, I killed it with my troubles.
chiefanchor's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 05:43:57 UTC
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chiefanchor: @redenchilada The trouble is, I find myself unable to move on. Over the past two years, I've gotten to know her to the point that I felt like there was something there - which I held back, because I didn't want to push her away at the time. I finally came clean, and was played with as a result. Yet I still love her.
chiefanchor's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 05:16:34 UTC
@redenchilada The trouble is, I find myself unable to move on. Over the past two years, I've gotten to know her to the point that I felt like there was something there - which I held back, because I didn't want to push her away at the time. I finally came clean, and was played with as a result. Yet I still love her.
chiefanchor: @wafers Alright, since you can't seem to take a hint and respect a serious matter, I'm just going to tell you to stop.
chiefanchor's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 05:12:33 UTC
@wafers Alright, since you can't seem to take a hint and respect a serious matter, I'm just going to tell you to stop.
chiefanchor: @wafers All the same, it'd be considered sexual assault because of the action.
chiefanchor's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 05:10:46 UTC
@wafers All the same, it'd be considered sexual assault because of the action.
chiefanchor: @wafers Do you seriously want me to get arrested on sexual assault charges?
chiefanchor's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 05:09:30 UTC
@wafers Do you seriously want me to get arrested on sexual assault charges?
chiefanchor: @nerthos NO. I will not respond to manipulation with further manipulation. That is a line that I will never cross.
chiefanchor's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 05:06:19 UTC
@nerthos NO. I will not respond to manipulation with further manipulation. That is a line that I will never cross.
chiefanchor: @wafers @scribus @nerthos It's someone that I actually, genuinely care about and love, who has basically shot down my feelings after leading me on for three days. I still love that person, which is leaving me in a difficult spot. I'd appreciate a bit of... tact.
chiefanchor's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 05:04:41 UTC
@wafers @scribus @nerthos It's someone that I actually, genuinely care about and love, who has basically shot down my feelings after leading me on for three days. I still love that person, which is leaving me in a difficult spot. I'd appreciate a bit of... tact.
chiefanchor: In the past four hours, I've already gotten mixed advice on this downright confusing and waylaying relationship problem I'm having. I'm nowhere closer to finding a possible solution than I was at the start - perhaps farther from one.
chiefanchor's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 04:59:50 UTC
In the past four hours, I've already gotten mixed advice on this downright confusing and waylaying relationship problem I'm having. I'm nowhere closer to finding a possible solution than I was at the start - perhaps farther from one.
chiefanchor: @pony That's what makes this whole situation as bad as it is: I love her, she claims that she doesn't see me as more than a friend, and I find myself unable to legitimately accept that. I'm in such a precarious position in this that I honestly don't know what to do with myself.
chiefanchor's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 04:33:15 UTC
@pony That's what makes this whole situation as bad as it is: I love her, she claims that she doesn't see me as more than a friend, and I find myself unable to legitimately accept that. I'm in such a precarious position in this that I honestly don't know what to do with myself.
chiefanchor: @mushi It's okay, it's just that I'm at such an awkward crossroads that I don't even want to take a step in any direction for fear of misstepping.
chiefanchor's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 02:14:03 UTC
@mushi It's okay, it's just that I'm at such an awkward crossroads that I don't even want to take a step in any direction for fear of misstepping.
chiefanchor: @zeldatra Yes, I do, but NOT at the risk of pushing her away.
chiefanchor's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 02:02:24 UTC
@zeldatra Yes, I do, but NOT at the risk of pushing her away.
chiefanchor: @nerthos If it were that simple, I'd have done it. And the last damned thing I want to do is potentially alienate her.
chiefanchor's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 02:01:16 UTC
@nerthos If it were that simple, I'd have done it. And the last damned thing I want to do is potentially alienate her.
chiefanchor: @zeldatra Yeah, you'll get flak and shrapnel for that. I put no stock in anything besides actually getting to know someone in-person.
chiefanchor's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 01:56:55 UTC
@zeldatra Yeah, you'll get flak and shrapnel for that. I put no stock in anything besides actually getting to know someone in-person.
chiefanchor: @mushi You could've ignored the repost, you know... I'm asking anyone for their advice here, because this territory is so foreign to me that I legitimately do not know what to do at all/.
chiefanchor's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 01:56:05 UTC
@mushi You could've ignored the repost, you know... I'm asking anyone for their advice here, because this territory is so foreign to me that I legitimately do not know what to do at all/.
chiefanchor: Reposting because... I seriously don't know what to do: I've been led on - and the girl-in-question apparently led herself on as well - and have had the first "relationship" I've had in seven years just dissolve. I still have feelings for her, and this will not change at all. Where do I go from here?
chiefanchor's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 01:52:46 UTC
Reposting because... I seriously don't know what to do: I've been led on - and the girl-in-question apparently led herself on as well - and have had the first "relationship" I've had in seven years just dissolve. I still have feelings for her, and this will not change at all. Where do I go from here?
chiefanchor: @redenchilada I tried injecting a relationship discussion, but it's been terminated and resources were reallocated to the OS discussion.
chiefanchor's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 01:46:46 UTC
@redenchilada I tried injecting a relationship discussion, but it's been terminated and resources were reallocated to the OS discussion.
chiefanchor: @chiefanchor So, here's the situation: I've been led on - and the girl-in-question apparently led herself on as well - and have had the first "relationship" I've had in seven years just dissolve. I still have feelings for her, and this will not change at all. Where do I go from here?
chiefanchor's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 01:37:16 UTC
@chiefanchor So, here's the situation: I've been led on - and the girl-in-question apparently led herself on as well - and have had the first "relationship" I've had in seven years just dissolve. I still have feelings for her, and this will not change at all. Where do I go from here?
chiefanchor: @yodelerty A healthy way? What healthy way is there? I still love her and I know that I can't change how I feel about her at all. This is the first time in my life that I've encountered this particular situation in a relationship, and I legitimately do not know what to do.
chiefanchor's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 01:31:19 UTC
@yodelerty A healthy way? What healthy way is there? I still love her and I know that I can't change how I feel about her at all. This is the first time in my life that I've encountered this particular situation in a relationship, and I legitimately do not know what to do.
chiefanchor: @yodelerty That's the thing - I honestly can't see myself changing how I feel about her at all. No one else that I've met, besides two others who I've tried with before, has managed to make me feel this way about them. And I honestly mean no one.\
chiefanchor's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 01:27:27 UTC
@yodelerty That's the thing - I honestly can't see myself changing how I feel about her at all. No one else that I've met, besides two others who I've tried with before, has managed to make me feel this way about them. And I honestly mean no one.\
chiefanchor: @yodelerty Like nothing else, believe me. I'm just so damned lost right now; I have no clue what to do, because I honestly still have feelings for this person, and can't just set them aside.
chiefanchor's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 01:22:25 UTC
@yodelerty Like nothing else, believe me. I'm just so damned lost right now; I have no clue what to do, because I honestly still have feelings for this person, and can't just set them aside.
chiefanchor: ... and it comes crashing down. The third person I connected with on a level that I thought meant something, and apparently they didn't have the heart to stop themselves from leading me on until three days after leaving me with very little doubt I had a relationship. So much for the first trip out of the gate in seven years...
chiefanchor's status on Monday, 11-Mar-13 01:20:09 UTC
... and it comes crashing down. The third person I connected with on a level that I thought meant something, and apparently they didn't have the heart to stop themselves from leading me on until three days after leaving me with very little doubt I had a relationship. So much for the first trip out of the gate in seven years...
chiefanchor: @renovatedkitchen OH GAWD WHY DASH THAT?!
chiefanchor's status on Sunday, 10-Mar-13 06:05:28 UTC
@renovatedkitchen OH GAWD WHY DASH THAT?!
chiefanchor: @yodelerty I get mine on the last week of the month. Hopefully it ends up meaning I can spend time with that special someone~
chiefanchor's status on Sunday, 10-Mar-13 05:38:28 UTC
@yodelerty I get mine on the last week of the month. Hopefully it ends up meaning I can spend time with that special someone~
chiefanchor: Wow, two whole weeks of college left before a one-week vacation
chiefanchor's status on Sunday, 10-Mar-13 05:36:59 UTC
Wow, two whole weeks of college left before a one-week vacation
chiefanchor: Ahhh, what a way to end a week... Spending some time with good friends and sharing a first kiss with that special someone. I can go home quite happy tonight.
chiefanchor's status on Friday, 08-Mar-13 21:36:14 UTC
Ahhh, what a way to end a week... Spending some time with good friends and sharing a first kiss with that special someone. I can go home quite happy tonight.
chiefanchor: @ceruleanspark Agreed. Though fun is good :3
chiefanchor's status on Friday, 08-Mar-13 17:04:43 UTC
@ceruleanspark Agreed. Though fun is good :3
chiefanchor: @widget I saw it - looks like it turned out good! Guess we can trust FOX29 to get it right!
chiefanchor's status on Friday, 08-Mar-13 06:38:44 UTC
@widget I saw it - looks like it turned out good! Guess we can trust FOX29 to get it right!
chiefanchor: @nerthos ... critting your pants, eh?
chiefanchor's status on Friday, 08-Mar-13 05:10:04 UTC
@nerthos ... critting your pants, eh?
chiefanchor: @minti Makes me wonder what happens when a crit is rolled... and then a 1 on the confirm
chiefanchor's status on Friday, 08-Mar-13 05:08:53 UTC
@minti Makes me wonder what happens when a crit is rolled... and then a 1 on the confirm
chiefanchor: @widget indeed! How are you?
chiefanchor's status on Friday, 08-Mar-13 01:25:14 UTC
@widget indeed! How are you?
chiefanchor: RT @yodelerty This place isn't gangsta enough.
chiefanchor's status on Friday, 08-Mar-13 01:19:37 UTC
RT @yodelerty This place isn't gangsta enough.
chiefanchor: @nerthos @yodelerty @mushi Since we all count each other as close friends already, it should help a great deal. Things need to calm down first, though.
chiefanchor's status on Friday, 08-Mar-13 01:17:19 UTC
@nerthos @yodelerty @mushi Since we all count each other as close friends already, it should help a great deal. Things need to calm down first, though.
chiefanchor: @anarchycarcino jury's out on that. What mattered most is that it avoids breaking down anyone involved.
chiefanchor's status on Friday, 08-Mar-13 01:15:31 UTC
@anarchycarcino jury's out on that. What mattered most is that it avoids breaking down anyone involved.
chiefanchor: @mushi @yodelerty Well... Walked into college, found friend - who I downright love - at a relatinship crossroads. Through the space of hours... I ended up in a bizarre form of open relationship that I am rather alright with. Mainly, because I know all involved and trust each.
chiefanchor's status on Friday, 08-Mar-13 01:12:46 UTC
@mushi @yodelerty Well... Walked into college, found friend - who I downright love - at a relatinship crossroads. Through the space of hours... I ended up in a bizarre form of open relationship that I am rather alright with. Mainly, because I know all involved and trust each.
chiefanchor's status on Friday, 08-Mar-13 01:10:08 UTC
chiefanchor: @ceruleanspark Over here, though, you've got Fox itself (News Corp.) and then local channels affiliated with it. Same with the Broadcast Big Three - ABC, CBS and NBC. Affiliates are just that, and are mostly their own entity still.
chiefanchor's status on Thursday, 07-Mar-13 15:49:28 UTC
@ceruleanspark Over here, though, you've got Fox itself (News Corp.) and then local channels affiliated with it. Same with the Broadcast Big Three - ABC, CBS and NBC. Affiliates are just that, and are mostly their own entity still.
chiefanchor: @ceruleanspark It's my local FOX affiliate, so this gives me a bit more faith in the local news
chiefanchor's status on Thursday, 07-Mar-13 15:44:01 UTC
@ceruleanspark It's my local FOX affiliate, so this gives me a bit more faith in the local news
chiefanchor: @colfax Hey, I'm not! College has a habit of simulating death, though... of your free time.
chiefanchor's status on Thursday, 07-Mar-13 15:43:14 UTC
@colfax Hey, I'm not! College has a habit of simulating death, though... of your free time.