{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Rainbow Dash Network","provider_url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/","type":"link","title":"Omni (omni)'s status on Monday, 01-Oct-12 18:21:08 UTC","author_name":"Omni (omni)","author_url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/omni","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/1965731","html":"@<span class=\"vcard\"><a href=\"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/user\/1948\" class=\"url\" title=\"Cerulean Spark\"><span class=\"fn nickname\">ceruleanspark<\/span><\/a><\/span> True, true. A way to not have to say no because it feels bad to say it but the other still understanding it would be nice, but L\u00e1adan is clearly not a solution for this. On the risk of sounding overly feminine, which I pretty much am, I often feel like saying the opposite of what I mean as well, just because it's scary to say what I really mean, and I just have to hope my partner understands. Mostly this seems to go right, but not always as well, and then I end up having to clear it up which is even worse..."}