{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Rainbow Dash Network","provider_url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/","type":"link","title":"Rarity (rarity)'s status on Tuesday, 28-Jan-14 22:55:54 UTC","author_name":"Rarity (rarity)","author_url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/rarity","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3271938","html":"@<span class=\"vcard\"><a href=\"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/user\/31239\" class=\"url\"><span class=\"fn nickname mention\">clayinthecarpet<\/span><\/a><\/span> I don't know the whole situation and I doubt I ever will.  But you need to think about yourself a little.  You are a decent person.  You are like me in that you are stubborn, though.  And stubbornness is a toxic thing so often.  Learning to let things go is an absolutely vital skill."}