{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Rainbow Dash Network","provider_url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/","type":"link","title":"Jim Dimitri (jimbo)'s status on Friday, 23-Sep-11 07:28:51 UTC","author_name":"Jim Dimitri (jimbo)","author_url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/jimbo","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/537783","html":"@<span class=\"vcard\"><a href=\"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/user\/3360\" class=\"url\"><span class=\"fn nickname\">pawnheart<\/span><\/a><\/span> Ehh, I think sometimes people just assume that alienating = not alienating to people like THEM. So straight people may say things that make gay people feel uncomfortable, and ditto for men and women. Sometimes it's not conscious, or even purposefully upsetting, but they can get very defensive when called out on it. I mean, NO one likes getting called out, but otherwise nothing gets changed, you know?"}