{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Rainbow Dash Network","provider_url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/","type":"link","title":"Joseph N. (jinny)'s status on Wednesday, 19-Oct-11 12:23:49 UTC","author_name":"Joseph N. (jinny)","author_url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/jinny","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/644301","html":"@<span class=\"vcard\"><a href=\"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/user\/1614\" class=\"url\" title=\"Ryan Young\"><span class=\"fn nickname\">citrusrain<\/span><\/a><\/span> My ex-Wife had a big family, valued, family over all else. Even me. Couldn't stand it. I have a small family, we're close, but I don't feel I need to be harshly loyal to them. We all know where we stand. If you don't have the same mentality as her, family-wise. Then it's gonna be a pain in the flank. You could always try and spend time with them, I mean they could be cool. Dunno, that's another option. Just giving my 2 cents from experience. Good luck, but yeah I'd still say give it a shot hopefully things will normalize after the stress of her ill sister subsides."}