1.0 link Rainbow Dash Network http://rainbowdash.net/ Madyson Bickel (madykatt) http://rainbowdash.net/madykatt http://rainbowdash.net/notice/1205986 @<span class="vcard"><a href="http://rainbowdash.net/user/9286" class="url" title="Doctor Science, PHD"><span class="fn nickname">praxis</span></a></span> it can actually be held either way. the only valid reason that you would want to hold by the stem is to keep it from getting warm from your hand. Ive also heard ponies say that you wanna hold it by the stem so you can see the color of the wine, but that is only really at a tasting