1.0 link Rainbow Dash Network http://rainbowdash.net/ That wierd guy next door (maverick) http://rainbowdash.net/maverick http://rainbowdash.net/notice/1240446 @<span class="vcard"><a href="http://rainbowdash.net/user/10039" class="url" title="Claire"><span class="fn nickname">clarity</span></a></span> Mhm. I think its because we have set ourselves as the nice people. So when we are assertive, they know something is up. If I do start to become assertive with a friend, they usually hush up quite fast. Then I tell them Im sorry.