1.0 link Rainbow Dash Network http://rainbowdash.net/ Cerulean Lulamoon-Spark (ceruleansparkold) http://rainbowdash.net/ceruleansparkold http://rainbowdash.net/notice/1421284 @<span class="vcard"><a href="http://rainbowdash.net/user/6761" class="url" title="My real name"><span class="fn nickname">pony</span></a></span> When I originally learned of this concept it was called something else, and I mostly felt my way through it. I know that if I had read that stuff you just linked me to, I sure as hell never would have bothered. Just talk to her. Don't just treat her as a respository for your questions and...debug controls for your higher brain functions. Talk to her as a friend. Ask her about stuff any old stuff. Seek her input frequently.