1.0 link Rainbow Dash Network http://rainbowdash.net/ Pony (pony) http://rainbowdash.net/pony http://rainbowdash.net/notice/1601929 @<span class="vcard"><a href="http://rainbowdash.net/user/11673" class="url" title="Alex Moore"><span class="fn nickname">foxgopher</span></a></span> There's something I learned the hard way while dealing with my porn addiction. There's a difference between guilt and shame. people could shame me for doing what i did, but only if I let them. Guilt was there too when I knew I wasn't doing my best, but it was really the shame that hurt me. It never benefitted me once, unlike guilt which simply let me know I needed to improve. You're loved, no matter what. Shame contradicts that and is a lie.