1.0 link Rainbow Dash Network http://rainbowdash.net/ Omni (omni) http://rainbowdash.net/omni http://rainbowdash.net/notice/1965731 @<span class="vcard"><a href="http://rainbowdash.net/user/1948" class="url" title="Cerulean Spark"><span class="fn nickname">ceruleanspark</span></a></span> True, true. A way to not have to say no because it feels bad to say it but the other still understanding it would be nice, but Láadan is clearly not a solution for this. On the risk of sounding overly feminine, which I pretty much am, I often feel like saying the opposite of what I mean as well, just because it's scary to say what I really mean, and I just have to hope my partner understands. Mostly this seems to go right, but not always as well, and then I end up having to clear it up which is even worse...