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 <title>Pony (pony)'s status on Monday, 20-Jan-14 08:42:02 UTC</title>
 <author_name>Pony (pony)</author_name>
 <author_url>http://rainbowdash.net/pony</author_url>
 <url>http://rainbowdash.net/notice/3256536</url>
 <html>@&lt;span class=&quot;vcard&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://rainbowdash.net/user/31239&quot; class=&quot;url&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;fn nickname mention&quot;&gt;clayinthecarpet&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; @&lt;span class=&quot;vcard&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://rainbowdash.net/user/27915&quot; class=&quot;url&quot; title=&quot;Brendon&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;fn nickname mention&quot;&gt;vt3c&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; My wife is often abusive due to mental illness. Fortunately I can usually separate her from her illness. I think that if you want a healthy relationship with somepony who's ill, that's the only way, otherwise the resentment goes toward the person or yourself.</html>
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