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  1. @augustus @zemichi tbh we have the community feeling even with politics. no family is without some differences between it's members

    Friday, 08-Jul-16 22:39:00 UTC from gs.smuglo.li
    1. @dokidoki @augustus @zemichi I feel like I'm on decent terms with both hard left and hard right people on here, most of the people that refuse to interact with me (and that's totally OK by me) just have a normal intolerance for excessive levels of political bs or just know what they don't want to listen to. Nobody's rage blocked me, which is a million times better than other social media.

      Friday, 08-Jul-16 22:43:39 UTC from shitposter.club
      1. @moonman @zemichi @dokidoki @augustus You're alright by my standards.

        Friday, 08-Jul-16 22:47:58 UTC from shitposter.club
      2. @moonman @augustus @pennyfortheguy @zemichi >on good terms with both sides

        PICK ONE YOU INDECISIVE FOOL

        *blocks*

        Friday, 08-Jul-16 22:49:25 UTC from gs.smuglo.li
        1. @dokidoki personally, i already got tired of both sides

          Friday, 08-Jul-16 22:51:20 UTC from web
          1. @mushi Understandable.

            Friday, 08-Jul-16 22:54:45 UTC from gs.smuglo.li
        2. @dokidoki Who's blocked?

          Friday, 08-Jul-16 22:51:13 UTC from sealion.club
          1. @pennyfortheguy It's a joke.

            satire

            Friday, 08-Jul-16 22:53:54 UTC from gs.smuglo.li
            1. @dokidoki LOL OH YOU ;-)

              Friday, 08-Jul-16 22:53:48 UTC from sealion.club
    2. @dokidoki @zemichi @augustus
      I think we create our own little communities around here. Not everyone is going to get along, and that's okay. I think it is important to be yourself, and other people can decide if that is something they want to associate with or not. As we grow with members, the more divides you will end up seeing. It's natural. People tend to gravitate towards those people that they are alike to.

      Friday, 08-Jul-16 23:08:48 UTC from sealion.club
      1. @sim @dokidoki @zemichi @augustus This is true. After all, there is nothing wrong with having your own niche you fit in with.

        Friday, 08-Jul-16 23:12:53 UTC from gs.smuglo.li
        1. @dolus @zemichi @dokidoki @augustus
          Pretty much. I like having my own niche around here. I don't usually bother with any idiots.

          Friday, 08-Jul-16 23:20:36 UTC from sealion.club
          1. @sim @dokidoki @zemichi @augustus Never understood people who try so hard to fit in with everyone else, when you can usually find people who they are already compatible with, personality-wise.

            Friday, 08-Jul-16 23:23:59 UTC from gs.smuglo.li
          2. @sim @dokidoki @zemichi @augustus Never understood the people who try so hard to fit in with everyone else, in most cases, it's easier to find people who you're already compatible with, personality-wise.

            Friday, 08-Jul-16 23:25:57 UTC from gs.smuglo.li
            1. @dolus @augustus @zemichi @sim @dokidoki if you grew up in a certain Era, you were taught almost explicitly that you needed to get along with everyone or there was some kind of problem

              Friday, 08-Jul-16 23:28:05 UTC from shitposter.club
              1. @moonman @dokidoki @zemichi @sim @augustus True. But I think kids will pretty much always try to split up into their own little groups, because it's basically our tribnal instinct manifesting.

                Friday, 08-Jul-16 23:32:19 UTC from gs.smuglo.li
                1. @dolus @moonman @zemichi @dokidoki @augustus
                  We do it naturally. You can't interact with everybody, that would be tiring... and you never find close meaningful relationships if you try to befriend everybody. You wouldn't have the time! It's better to create your standards, be open to casual conversations, but use more of your socialising time with those close friends you can open up to that are trustworthy. People that you can learn from, and grow with.

                  I think some people are leaders, others are followers and the rest go their own way... or they are a mixture depending on what the situation calls for and what they want to be. Some personality types will simply clash, I love me some controversial people... ;)

                  Friday, 08-Jul-16 23:36:55 UTC from sealion.club
                  1. @sim @moonman @zemichi @dokidoki @augustus @dolus It's true! We have a lot of massively brilliant people here.

                    Friday, 08-Jul-16 23:46:35 UTC from sealion.club
                    1. @pennyfortheguy @zemichi @moonman @sim @dokidoki @augustus @dolus The only bad thing is the cherryposters.  It's good when the only bad things are bananaposters, and @chen.  At least we don't have any mentally vapid mouthbreathers.

                      Friday, 08-Jul-16 23:48:54 UTC from freezepeach.xyz
                      1. @econe @sim @moonman @zemichi @dokidoki @chen @augustus @dolus LOL :-)

                        Friday, 08-Jul-16 23:50:56 UTC from sealion.club
                    2. @pennyfortheguy @moonman @zemichi @dokidoki @augustus @dolus
                      Yeah, I like quite a few people on here too. You're one of them.

                      Friday, 08-Jul-16 23:52:20 UTC from sealion.club
                      1. @sim @moonman @zemichi @dokidoki @augustus @dolus Awww Shucks Gadget, Thanks M8.  ;-)

                        Friday, 08-Jul-16 23:53:35 UTC from sealion.club
                        1. @pennyfortheguy @moonman @zemichi @dokidoki @augustus @dolus
                          No problem. I like talking with you.

                          Friday, 08-Jul-16 23:57:09 UTC from sealion.club
                          1. @sim Ditto Brother ;-)

                            Friday, 08-Jul-16 23:57:53 UTC from sealion.club
                            1. @pennyfortheguy
                              Thank you. It's nice to hear that people like chatting with me.

                              Saturday, 09-Jul-16 00:00:36 UTC from sealion.club
                              1. @sim Anytime Gadget,Anytime. YVW ;-)

                                Saturday, 09-Jul-16 00:02:33 UTC from sealion.club
                  2. @sim @dokidoki @moonman @zemichi @augustus Honestly, the only thing I find odd about myself and the groups I integrate with, is how often I just sort of wander away from them and lose touch with the people. Dunno why I do this, I just lose the urge to keep it up for whatever reason. https://gs.smuglo.li/attachment/12109

                    Friday, 08-Jul-16 23:52:28 UTC from gs.smuglo.li
                    1. @dolus @moonman @zemichi @dokidoki @augustus
                      Sometimes it just happens. I don't stick with people for that long too... maybe a few years if lucky. Did you have much in common with them to begin with? Did either of you just end up drifting away because your life got busy or you just didn't hang out often enough?

                      Friday, 08-Jul-16 23:55:51 UTC from sealion.club
            2. @dolus @zemichi @dokidoki @augustus
              I understand that view. I suppose I could understand people who are second-handed wanting that, where they rely on other people to validate them. But I don't think that is a good use of your time. You can't please everyone. Better to discover your own niche.

              Friday, 08-Jul-16 23:30:11 UTC from sealion.club