{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Rainbow Dash Network","provider_url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/","type":"link","title":"Pony (pony)'s status on Monday, 03-Sep-12 10:00:46 UTC","author_name":"Pony (pony)","author_url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/pony","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/1882806","html":"@<span class=\"vcard\"><a href=\"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/user\/9842\" class=\"url\" title=\"Thecloakednightmare@gmail.com\"><span class=\"fn nickname\">arcanepony43<\/span><\/a><\/span> I believe that reveling in misery and self-loathing is a powerful distraction, but in the end it too wears off and can leave one worse than they were to begin with.  I speak from personal experience.  Dealing with life's issues directly, perseverance, and treating the triggers for your emotional pain are much healthier long term solutions."}