{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Rainbow Dash Network","provider_url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/","type":"link","title":"Michael (throwio)'s status on Wednesday, 28-Nov-12 03:44:52 UTC","author_name":"Michael (throwio)","author_url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/throwio","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/2131426","html":"@<span class=\"vcard\"><a href=\"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/user\/10820\" class=\"url\" title=\"That wierd guy next door\"><span class=\"fn nickname\">renovatedkitchen<\/span><\/a><\/span> for me it's when I care about someone enough that I want to see them happy and well more than I want to be with them.  In other words, I don't care who they date, I only care that they are happy and that they are happy with who they are dating.  If I happen to bring them happiness then I will be glad as well."}