{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Rainbow Dash Network","provider_url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/","type":"link","title":"Eris (neuraria)'s status on Sunday, 17-Nov-13 07:38:25 UTC","author_name":"Eris (neuraria)","author_url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/neuraria","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3125882","html":"@<span class=\"vcard\"><a href=\"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/user\/31239\" class=\"url\"><span class=\"fn nickname mention\">clayinthecarpet<\/span><\/a><\/span> Everyone judges. I do. A lot. Do I act on my judgments? Not when I can help it. Let's say I don't like Ross. If he and I conflicted on something, would I kick him out of my way? No. If that's how Fluttershy thinks, it wouldn't be something acted on, yes - but it shouldn't be something to act out to an extreme either.<br \/><br \/>Put bluntly, Iron Will didn't teach Fluttershy to be assertive, he taught her to be a bully. For someone like me, who rarely likes to get mad and (let's be honest) can get emotionally sensitive at times, the two can easily get confused."}