{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Rainbow Dash Network","provider_url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/","type":"link","title":"Rarity (rarity)'s status on Thursday, 23-Jan-14 02:49:37 UTC","author_name":"Rarity (rarity)","author_url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/rarity","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3261426","html":"@<span class=\"vcard\"><a href=\"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/user\/31239\" class=\"url\"><span class=\"fn nickname mention\">clayinthecarpet<\/span><\/a><\/span> it's different with people you know intimately, i.e. family members.  rule number 1:  If they say they don't want to talk about it, <i>don't keep asking them<\/i>.  Seriously.  My father was an Officer in the US Navy, but had to do a lot of spy type things during the Gulf War.  I KNOW not to ask him about it, because he's made it clear that if he wants to tell me, he will tell me.  Just be tactful."}