{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Rainbow Dash Network","provider_url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/","type":"link","title":"Matt (zeldatra)'s status on Tuesday, 11-Mar-14 20:49:36 UTC","author_name":"Matt (zeldatra)","author_url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/zeldatra","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/3338932","html":"@<span class=\"vcard\"><a href=\"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/user\/26379\" class=\"url\" title=\"Melody Breeze\"><span class=\"fn nickname mention\">bobthecheesegal<\/span><\/a><\/span> Starting to sound like me... (Disclaimer: I have not held down a girlfriend for more than a month, I have no idea how these things work, and my advice is probably terrible.) I (think) he's using self-pity to control you. If he's always upsetting you and then he turns around and makes himself the victim, that's not entirely healthy."}