{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Rainbow Dash Network","provider_url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/","type":"link","title":"lilytheamazingfaintingpony's status on Wednesday, 14-Sep-11 16:35:17 UTC","author_name":"lilytheamazingfaintingpony","author_url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/lilytheamazingfaintingpony","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/506966","html":"@<span class=\"vcard\"><a href=\"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/user\/1948\" class=\"url\" title=\"Cerulean Spark\"><span class=\"fn nickname\">ceruleanspark<\/span><\/a><\/span> In my experience it all depended on which youth pastor I talked to. Some thought it was okay. Some were not negative against it as a rule, but warned me that it would be wrong if I kept doing it after I married. One claimed it was okay as long as I did it mechanically, i.e. if I didn't fantasize while doing it. However, there *were* some who thought it counted as sex."}