{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Rainbow Dash Network","provider_url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/","type":"link","title":"Anna Wright (oracle)'s status on Wednesday, 11-Dec-19 23:45:20 UTC","author_name":"Anna Wright (oracle)","author_url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/oracle","url":"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/notice\/5467813","html":"@<span class=\"vcard\"><a href=\"http:\/\/rainbowdash.net\/user\/62529\" class=\"url\" title=\"Alcoholic Beast\"><span class=\"fn nickname mention\">drinkingpony<\/span><\/a><\/span> If it is blatantly obvious what pronoun <i>ought<\/i>  to be used, and you intentionally don't use it, fluffle yes, it's offensive. There are certainly offensive ways to go about asking someone when it isn't obvious."}