1.0 link Rainbow Dash Network http://rainbowdash.net/ Crash (lightningcrash) http://rainbowdash.net/lightningcrash http://rainbowdash.net/notice/1022461 @<span class="vcard"><a href="http://rainbowdash.net/user/2043" class="url" title="Chris Bell"><span class="fn nickname">mrdragon</span></a></span> Her concern was never about the monetary loss or the totaled car. It was just thoughts of 'Are you okay?' I think that's how it applies here. If you just come straight out to Tavi and be completely honest, she'll understand. She'll be worried about your safety now, not hold a grudge for you trying to keep her from sharing pain.