1.0 link Rainbow Dash Network http://rainbowdash.net/ That wierd guy next door (maverick) http://rainbowdash.net/maverick http://rainbowdash.net/notice/1378896 @<span class="vcard"><a href="http://rainbowdash.net/user/9434" class="url" title="Brendan"><span class="fn nickname">abigpony</span></a></span> Yup. I know what you mean. In the case that I have nothing to add, I just provide them with all my support and energy to get through. I cant deal with things in public either. Heck, in any group with over 3 people, I will most of the time not even be able to speak. I hush up very quickly. Even if someone is being rude to me, inside, I feel bad for them, because I know that they are probably having problems elsewhere in their lives and find that this is the easiest way to vent. I dont mind bearing peoples burdens. I find thats what I do best. I always manage to stoop down lower than the person with the problem and have them take it all off on me in a way.