1.0 link Rainbow Dash Network http://rainbowdash.net/ Matt (zeldatra) http://rainbowdash.net/zeldatra http://rainbowdash.net/notice/3338932 @<span class="vcard"><a href="http://rainbowdash.net/user/26379" class="url" title="Melody Breeze"><span class="fn nickname mention">bobthecheesegal</span></a></span> Starting to sound like me... (Disclaimer: I have not held down a girlfriend for more than a month, I have no idea how these things work, and my advice is probably terrible.) I (think) he's using self-pity to control you. If he's always upsetting you and then he turns around and makes himself the victim, that's not entirely healthy.