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 <title>★ (starshine)'s status on Sunday, 07-Aug-11 00:36:54 UTC</title>
 <author_name>★ (starshine)</author_name>
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 <html>Here's what I think: this place is PRETTY COOL. If you want to badmouth how it's gotten so terrible and how it used to be so much better, at least take a moment to think about what, specifically, you find so objectionable. Just saying &amp;quot;it sucks now&amp;quot; is counterproductive and just feeds a negative atmosphere. Saying that &amp;quot;certain people&amp;quot; are the problem is even worse, because not only are you playing the blame-game, you're also unwilling to be the change you want to see when you don't like something. Either learn to ignore others and move along if you have a difference of opinion, or speak out - in a civilized manner - about it. Offer a solution, otherwise you're not helping anything. Stop complaining and do something productive.</html>
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