1.0 link Rainbow Dash Network http://rainbowdash.net/ Ellis (ellistia) http://rainbowdash.net/ellistia http://rainbowdash.net/notice/4055157 @<span class="vcard"><a href="http://rainbowdash.net/user/37237" class="url" title="Sprocket"><span class="fn nickname mention">sprocket</span></a></span> obviously I don't have the full context of your situation, but the way I see it, it might be best to just stop setting yourself up for disappointment; take it easy and let things happen naturally, and try not to force something out of everyone you see potential in.