1.0 link Rainbow Dash Network http://rainbowdash.net/ lilytheamazingfaintingpony http://rainbowdash.net/lilytheamazingfaintingpony http://rainbowdash.net/notice/506966 @<span class="vcard"><a href="http://rainbowdash.net/user/1948" class="url" title="Cerulean Spark"><span class="fn nickname">ceruleanspark</span></a></span> In my experience it all depended on which youth pastor I talked to. Some thought it was okay. Some were not negative against it as a rule, but warned me that it would be wrong if I kept doing it after I married. One claimed it was okay as long as I did it mechanically, i.e. if I didn't fantasize while doing it. However, there *were* some who thought it counted as sex.