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 <title>steve (youtubeusurperkingzant)'s status on Monday, 19-Sep-11 02:25:19 UTC</title>
 <author_name>steve (youtubeusurperkingzant)</author_name>
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 <html>@&lt;span class=&quot;vcard&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://rainbowdash.net/user/169&quot; class=&quot;url&quot; title=&quot;Tim&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;fn nickname&quot;&gt;brooklyne&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; Be assertive when you say something. Don't be afraid to speak up for yourself. But of course, have a strategy for what to say (and when). Maybe you could mention in today's society, the gender roles are fading. Or you could mention the sexism where girls being boyish is a good thing and boys being girly is a bad thing? Just show that you're a nice guy</html>
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