Replies to citrusrain, page 3
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@citrusrain Ah ok, well I hope you can show up at the next one. ^^ It should be fun. ^^
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@citrusrain I had the same from the company I buy things from. It amused the Saleswomen, and she also started to use it ^.^ small things in life like that make it all the more interesting and enjoyable.
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@citrusrain Oh yes, convert ALL the people to the herd. :)
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@citrusrain Haha that's grand man. xD
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@citrusrain That sounds good, just don't get me or you, in trouble with your mom. ;)
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@citrusrain Yes, by your mom's reaction to our meetup, it would be surprising. Maybe she'll let you goto Dave and Busters though.
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@citrusrain This is our plan for next year. ;) I just hope your mom doesn't cry about that too.
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@citrusrain You just gotta be like me and just force your family to accept whatever. ;) My mom wasn't keen on me loving ponies, but I forced them all to accept it. xD Now my mom likes ponies. :3
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@citrusrain Awww...I'm sorry man. At the Anthrocon in Pittsburgh, my mom was totally all into telling me, I should go. xD I had to plan things for the meetup though, so I didn't wanna make two trips to Pittsburgh in such close proximity to each other.
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@citrusrain Haha, don't worry, your secret is safe with me. ^^ It's a well known thing with me. I'm not like fur suit or anything, but I've been keen on it since middle school I'd say.
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@citrusrain Hehe, good answer. :3
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@citrusrain Well, do you like furry junk or not? That's the simple question. :3 Answer or don't if you're not comfortable. ^^
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@citrusrain Hehe, sorry I meant, that you don't have an affinity to furres? Not the Fur Affinity website.
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@citrusrain I see, you don't have a fur affinity?
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@citrusrain Yeah man, Animorphs ftw! I still have a few somewhere. ^^
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@citrusrain Hey! You're not messed up, OK? You're just different, not worse.
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@citrusrain Oh? Would you be willing to discuss it at all? It's not my intention to embarass you or make you uncomfortable. You like what you like, so there's no need to feel ashamed.
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@citrusrain Oh wow, yeah that is rather odd. Her speculating that you should propose so quickly. I mean it's not unheard of to propose in a short time period, because when you know, you know. Her meddling though certainly isn't a positive factor though.
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@citrusrain About her parents moving in?
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@citrusrain Okay, all things aside, being poor still doesn't mean they have the right to try and get you to buy things. Or more specifically, that you are forced to buy them things. While it may be nice once in a while for you to help out or do what you can for them if they're going to be part of your family, they shouldn't be the ones "hinting" at you to help them. It just doesn't work that way. As for the neighbor, I've had bad neighbors for how many years now. Simply put, you ignore them. They don't have the right to bother you and that means you have the right to step right by them completely.
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@citrusrain Yes, I suppose that is understandable, and if you want to get in good, with the family I guess that would be fine. Though I don't like the idea of you know the boy friend having to spot them cash or whatever. I mean just think if you got married and they're like, "Oh yeah, we foreclosed on our house so we can move in with you guys now." That is annoying as well, that kinda neighbor is far from pleasant. You should have just politely stated that you were expected inside. ;)
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@citrusrain Okay, well firstly, I'm not exactly feeling the whole "use daughter's boyfriend to buy us stuff." That just seems rude. If you really like her, then you'll have to find a way to get to a middle ground with them all. Though, if she actually wants you to let them freeload off you, then obviously that's something to take into consideration and doesn't seem worth your time. I'd say your mother meddling doesn't help, but if she knows about their attempts to make you run errands and get them dinner, it makes a little more sense. Once again, it seems to all come down to whether she knows what her family is trying to do to you and if she doesn't like them doing it. Other than that, it once again relies on how much you want things to work out between the two of you and how far you're willing to go to do that.
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@citrusrain Like it's worth the trouble I mean.
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@citrusrain No offense, but they sound like a buncha freeloaders. The more I hear about it, I'd say, doesn't seem like the trouble, but you have to follow your own heart. ^^ I had to learn that the hard way. xD
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@citrusrain My ex-Wife had a big family, valued, family over all else. Even me. Couldn't stand it. I have a small family, we're close, but I don't feel I need to be harshly loyal to them. We all know where we stand. If you don't have the same mentality as her, family-wise. Then it's gonna be a pain in the flank. You could always try and spend time with them, I mean they could be cool. Dunno, that's another option. Just giving my 2 cents from experience. Good luck, but yeah I'd still say give it a shot hopefully things will normalize after the stress of her ill sister subsides.
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@citrusrain I can't say I've been in a relationship, but as far as I can tell you have the choice of not pushing anything on her (If you want to stay with her. Which it seems you do) and not try forcing her to choose between her family and you. If you let her know you support her helping her sister, maybe she'll fell more at ease to talk about other things and not be so quick to jump to conclusions. It wouldn't really be right to blame her for caring about her family or for her sister getting sick. That being said, you also have the option of deciding this isn't what you want and ending things. This isn't something you should decide quickly or easily however, and especially when you seem angry and may be more susceptible to making a unwanted or bad decision. Just calm down and once you have a clear head, think about what you're willing to do for her and whether you're willing to wait.
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@citrusrain Notright Spazzle She's so fargone that you can't even tell who she is by her name.
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@citrusrain Twilight Spazkle?
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@citrusrain Yeah, that would be awkward. I think I've got it relatively good here, but I still feel a bit odd about it. I think that's a common experience among bronies, though.
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@citrusrain That could easily be. And I wouldn't mind at all if it resumed tonight! :D (Unfortunately, the only time that happens for me is premonitions, and those tend to repeat from different perspectives rather than resume, and I highly doubt that me having a bonding conversation with Princess Luna is a vision of something that's really going to happen in my future. ;) ) Ah, well. Though it's frustrating to wake up from something like that, I won't complain that I had it, and that it's sticking with me. :)
