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  1. Whew... a Twitter friend gave me some really good advice today, regarding the Tumblr post I made yesterday, regarding my gender identity issues... I need to quit worrying and take it slow but steady. Before even worrying about what my parents think, I have to basically come out to myself first. I'm going to take my friend's advice to heart.

    Saturday, 22-Oct-11 22:31:20 UTC from web
    1. @shydash It's definitely a process, and sometimes a long process. In my case it was being queer rather than specifically gender identity, but I think there are some parallels. I wish you the best.

      Saturday, 22-Oct-11 22:36:37 UTC from StatusNet iPhone
      1. @tequilasunrise Thanks :) And yeah, you're right about there being parallels. It just gets real complicated at points.

        Saturday, 22-Oct-11 22:40:01 UTC from web
        1. @shydash It really does. I feel like I'm still not quite where I'd like to be.

          Saturday, 22-Oct-11 22:41:57 UTC from web
    2. @shydash *hugs* I happen to think you're very brave. I wish you the best of luck on your journey.

      Saturday, 22-Oct-11 22:39:05 UTC from web
      1. @ceruleanspark Thanks :) You've been good to talk to, long as I've been a member of this site. I know that if need any private support I have several people to turn to.

        Saturday, 22-Oct-11 22:42:32 UTC from web
    3. @purplephish20 well actually there are trolls on here

      Saturday, 22-Oct-11 22:45:31 UTC from web
      1. @theawesomeponylovesmetalgearsolid Theyre everywhere, but they dont routine hit this place as much, and i NEVER see insults get thrown around on here

        Saturday, 22-Oct-11 22:46:42 UTC from web
        1. @purplephish20 you're a loser.

          Saturday, 22-Oct-11 22:47:24 UTC from StatusNet Android
          1. @carcino Iseewhatyoudidthere

            Saturday, 22-Oct-11 22:50:43 UTC from web
          2. @carcino zambo you such a busta

            Saturday, 22-Oct-11 22:51:21 UTC from web
        2. @purplephish20 yeah that's kinda true but then again you havent been here as long as me so you havent seen too much but then again things have changed over time

          Saturday, 22-Oct-11 22:48:27 UTC from web
      2. @theawesomeponylovesmetalgearsolid There are trolls everywhere. I do my best to avoid them, personally :)

        Saturday, 22-Oct-11 22:47:33 UTC from web
        1. @shydash im a troll occasionally

          Saturday, 22-Oct-11 22:49:13 UTC from web
    4. @purplephish20 derp

      Saturday, 22-Oct-11 22:47:43 UTC from web
    5. @shydash !hugs Oh you poor dear. T_T I know just how you feel, I went through the same thing some years ago, well like a decade ago. >_> Took some getting used to for my parents, I didn't do anything drastic, but they at least accept who I am. ^^ Just be yourself and don't let anypony tell you how to be otherwise. ^^ You have my 100% support!

      Saturday, 22-Oct-11 22:48:07 UTC from web
      1. @jinny Hey jin :3 !hugs

        Saturday, 22-Oct-11 22:49:08 UTC from web
        1. @metal Why hello there. ^^ How has your day been? hehe.

          Saturday, 22-Oct-11 22:49:43 UTC from web
          1. @jinny bland

            Saturday, 22-Oct-11 22:50:13 UTC from web
            1. @metal Bland. =_= That does not sound like fun. Poor thing. !huggles You need some fun. ^^ I went shopping today hehe. I still need to tell @fluttershy321 about the tres cute things I saw hehe.

              Saturday, 22-Oct-11 22:51:33 UTC from web
              1. @jinny :P !huggles and yeah i didnt do much at all and whats bobby's world..o_O

                Saturday, 22-Oct-11 22:53:09 UTC from web
                1. @metal Bobby's world is a cartoon from the early 90s. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WFGzuineZNE&feature=related

                  Saturday, 22-Oct-11 22:56:24 UTC from web
                  1. @jinny blah no thanks

                    Saturday, 22-Oct-11 22:56:45 UTC from web
                    1. @metal Hehe I can try. ^^

                      Saturday, 22-Oct-11 22:57:20 UTC from web
                      1. @jinny hm?

                        Saturday, 22-Oct-11 22:59:30 UTC from web
      2. @jinny :)

        Saturday, 22-Oct-11 22:52:15 UTC from web
        1. @shydash !huggles Yes hehe, you're so great. ^^ I love you just how you are. ^^ @fluttershy321 also knows how we feel, so you can talk to either of us if you need somepony to listen.

          Saturday, 22-Oct-11 22:54:00 UTC from web
          1. @jinny Tell me! Tell me! Tell me now!!!

            Saturday, 22-Oct-11 22:59:21 UTC from web
            1. @fluttershy321 !huggles OMG! Where did you come from gal pal? ^^

              Saturday, 22-Oct-11 22:59:39 UTC from web
              1. @jinny I came from nowhere! Now! Tell me about the cute things you saw!!!

                Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:00:26 UTC from web
                1. @fluttershy321 :) no... Tell us

                  Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:01:27 UTC from web
                  1. @zach121k =)

                    Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:02:26 UTC from web
                    1. @fluttershy321 :D

                      Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:02:53 UTC from web
                2. @fluttershy321 OMG Fur! Fur everywhere! Not tacky fur either tres cute and chic fur! I shed a tear for the animals, but then forgot because of how cute it all looked to wear. :3

                  Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:02:05 UTC from web
                  1. @jinny OMG OMG OMG!!!

                    Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:02:58 UTC from web
                    1. @fluttershy321 OMG I saw these hats. They were so cuuute. They were furry and snuggly warm, with foxy ears on them. :3 I can't resist foxy and kitty ears. They're just so cute to wear. xD

                      Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:04:02 UTC from web
                      1. @jinny O.M.G!! You should have bought two and sent me one! I'd give you my address!

                        Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:05:23 UTC from web
                        1. @fluttershy321 !hug

                          Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:06:08 UTC from web
                          1. @zach121k !Snuggles

                            Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:06:36 UTC from web
                            1. @fluttershy321 We just can't leave eachother :)

                              Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:07:27 UTC from web
                              1. @zach121k !Snuggle !cuddles

                                Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:10:50 UTC from web
                        2. @fluttershy321 I know! I couldn't buy one either though. T_T # Maybe next time I go though hehe. I thought your mom would be totally angry if I mailed you anything. ;)

                          Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:06:49 UTC from web
                          1. @jinny Like i'd care! So she'd ground me, I'd have an awesome hat!

                            Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:08:17 UTC from web
                            1. @fluttershy321 Hehe that's true. ^^

                              Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:09:37 UTC from web
                              1. @jinny Anything else happen today?

                                Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:12:26 UTC from web
                                1. @fluttershy321 Just took my parents to dinner for their 27th Anniversary. ^^

                                  Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:13:37 UTC from web
                                  1. @jinny Aww!

                                    Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:13:56 UTC from web
                                    1. @fluttershy321 Yes, hehe, it's sweet that they are still together, though my father does drive me up a wall at times. ;)

                                      Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:15:07 UTC from web
                                      1. @jinny Lol

                                        Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:15:41 UTC from web
                                      2. @jinny Then he needs to get his drivers licenses revoked

                                        Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:16:52 UTC from web
                                        1. @fluttershy321 ha

                                          Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:17:34 UTC from web
                                          1. @zach121k @jinny Zach... You probably would be stuck holding the bags.. It's just the fact of the matter

                                            Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:19:17 UTC from web
                                            1. @fluttershy321 as long as I'm with you

                                              Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:20:15 UTC from web
                                              1. @zach121k =) If we ever find a way to do this we should

                                                Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:21:05 UTC from web
                                                1. @fluttershy321 indeed

                                                  Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:21:50 UTC from web
                                        2. @fluttershy321 Hehe, you're adorable you know that? ^^

                                          Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:19:17 UTC from web
                                          1. @jinny yes

                                            Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:19:33 UTC from web
                                            1. @fluttershy321 Hehe good. xD ^^ We need to get our flanks over to Ponyville and go shopping~

                                              Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:21:54 UTC from web
                                              1. @jinny Rarity's boutique first!

                                                Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:23:21 UTC from web
                                                1. @fluttershy321 Yes! Bridles and makeovers! ^^

                                                  Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:24:22 UTC from web
                                                  1. @jinny Yes yes yes!!!

                                                    Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:25:14 UTC from web
                                                    1. @fluttershy321 Hehe yes! I think Zach is overload thinking about a day out with his serious romance and his crush. :3

                                                      Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:26:13 UTC from web
                                                      1. @jinny Wait what

                                                        Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:26:44 UTC from web
                                                        1. @zach121k Yes naughty Zach. ^^ I know what thoughts are going on in your head. :3

                                                          Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:29:03 UTC from web
                                                          1. @jinny what thoughts

                                                            Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:29:50 UTC from web
                                                      2. @jinny =P We will force him to participate in our activities!

                                                        Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:27:27 UTC from web
                                                        1. @fluttershy321 Yes hehe, we will rope him up if need be and drag him with us. hehe.

                                                          Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:30:57 UTC from web
                                                          1. @jinny Yes! I'll bring the rope

                                                            Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:31:27 UTC from web
                                                            1. @fluttershy321 What ever it is I hope it's hot

                                                              Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:31:58 UTC from web
                                                              1. @zach121k You will be feminized

                                                                Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:32:38 UTC from web
                                                                1. @fluttershy321 No

                                                                  Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:32:50 UTC from web
                                                                  1. @zach121k I will tie you up! You will join in the makeovers!

                                                                    Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:34:27 UTC from web
                                                                    1. @fluttershy321 Atleast do something sexy with my tied up body

                                                                      Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:35:27 UTC from web
                                                                      1. @zach121k Oh don't worry, I will

                                                                        Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:36:20 UTC from web
                                                                        1. @fluttershy321 Good

                                                                          Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:36:40 UTC from web
                                                            2. @fluttershy321 *wild eyes* Yes! We can rope'em and ride'em!

                                                              Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:32:57 UTC from web
                                                              1. @jinny What

                                                                Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:33:53 UTC from web
                                                              2. @jinny Mwuhahahaha!!

                                                                Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:34:01 UTC from web
                                                                1. @fluttershy321 @zach121k *evil laugh* Wahahahaa! Yes Zachy! Soon you'll be one of us. ^^

                                                                  Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:36:28 UTC from web
                                                                  1. @jinny No

                                                                    Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:37:04 UTC from web
                                                                  2. @jinny >=)

                                                                    Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:37:26 UTC from web
                                                                    1. @fluttershy321 Zachy will be a pretty pretty princess by the time we're done with him. ^^

                                                                      Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:38:20 UTC from web
                                                                      1. @jinny Fine

                                                                        Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:39:33 UTC from web
                                                                      2. @jinny Well maybe not a princess since, I'm going to be the princess

                                                                        Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:39:39 UTC from web
                                                                        1. @fluttershy321 Yes, hehe that's true. ^^ You are a princess. ^^ Maybe he'll be a dutchess. ^^

                                                                          Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:41:23 UTC from web
                                                                          1. @jinny applesss works, he will be feminized!

                                                                            Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:43:35 UTC from web
                                                          2. @jinny >reads your post >what happened while I was gone?

                                                            Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:31:33 UTC from web
                                                            1. @metal I'm not sure what you mean. ^^

                                                              Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:33:28 UTC from web
                                                  2. @jinny 0_0

                                                    Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:25:25 UTC from web
                                  2. @jinny awwww you me and jaden need to go out

                                    Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:14:14 UTC from web
                                    1. @zach121k @fluttershy321 Yes, that would be lovely, though I think The two of us would be shopping and you'd be left holding the bags Zachy. ;)

                                      Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:15:33 UTC from web
                                      1. @jinny No... I'd buy outfits for my jaden

                                        Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:16:19 UTC from web
                                        1. @zach121k Well still. ;) You'd be holding the bags. :3

                                          Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:18:55 UTC from web
                                2. @fluttershy321 How about you? ^^ Anything fun today? How was yesterday's party? ^^

                                  Saturday, 22-Oct-11 23:13:52 UTC from web
    6. @purplephish20 Which site? This one? *blink* I WISH those things never happened here. Though calling people that particular "F" word is one of the quickest way onto my block list. Sadly, there are already some on it, so this place is far from perfect. But it IS a bit more accepting than most forums, to be sure.

      Sunday, 23-Oct-11 01:13:27 UTC from web
    7. @shydash Definitely very sound advice. :) Just be patient with yourself. !hug

      Sunday, 23-Oct-11 01:21:49 UTC from web