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I have some friend issues, bronies... I have a close friend who is also a brony, he's responsible for me even being into this wonderful fandom. But everytime I feel bad and need to talk about my problems with someone, he always gets angry with me when I turn to him. It's not like I was whining or anything, but he was just like, "Do you ever tell anyone else about these things?" ..I'm not sure if he even values me as a friend at times with how rude he is to me at times... What do?
Monday, 16-May-11 01:18:03 UTC from web-
@magicrussia Is he a friend worth having? If not, then I'd say you should just stop being a friends with him.
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@ickus Agreed.
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@magicrussia Not all friends want to hear your problems. Try someone else. But you can still be his friend.
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@magicrussia Sadly I've been guilty of doing just that to people I know, way more times than I'd like to count, but it was more a result of being wrapped up in my own problems that I couldn't sort out and the frustration made me rather short with them when they wanted to talk about their own, because of this most of them are no longer my friends because I drove them off
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@onixus @ickus Yeah... I'll wait until he cools down first before saying anything irrational. We've known eachother for a long time. @administrator Yay, Addy replied to one of my messages, I feel important. *cough* But anyway, yeah, I can understand if he doesn't wanna listen to my problems.. But he doesn't have to be so aggressive about it and be all *facepalm* with me, y'know? @marrock Oh dear.. I'm sorry to hear that. At least you knew what you did wrong though. I don't want to abandon him all together or stop being his friend, I just want him to know that he's making me feel bad with his aggressiveness. It reminds me of what my parents do to me when I try to talk about my issues to them..
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@magicrussia This whole ordeal is bringing back memories of my childhood. Lesson Learned: Control everything; Trust nopony
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@magicrussia Your parents do that? I'm sorry, that's pretty sad...
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@magicrussia Good for you.
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@magicrussia It almost sounds like you're tooling your friends. Sometimes you have to be your own backbone. Your friends don't control your life, you do. And they don't want to (usually). So if they don't appreciate you doing that then simply don't. If you want some real advice the internet actually isn't a bad place to ask, because you can be anonymous, nobody will judge you because they can't, and you'll get a lot more honest opinions rather than friends trying to not offend you.
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