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So I'm home alone and just got a call from my father who was frantically asking if I knew the phone numbers to any priests. From the white noise I suspect my dad is at the hospital and if he is then that means he's visiting my grandpa and if that's the case it's very likely my grandpa just went into critical.
Monday, 03-Nov-14 21:29:06 UTC from web-
@northernnarwhal I'm sorry about that.
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@coutz This in a way doesn't surprise me, but I'm going to be really depressed when it does happen.
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@northernnarwhal hopefully that's not the case
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@northernnarwhal Don't forget we are here for you if it comes to that
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@northernnarwhal Sorry man :/
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@northernnarwhal we are all here for you
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@rainbowdash3847 It likely is, my grandfather hasn't exactly been fighting a winning battle as of late.
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@coutz Thank you
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@rainbowdash3847 Thanks
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@northernnarwhal Doesn't make it any less butts
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@northernnarwhal I have been through this several times if that's any consolation at all, and also the obvious I am here for you
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@northernnarwhal he will pull through man just keep thinking that he will pull through and live.
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@rainbowdash3847 I'm not being pessimistic when I say that this is not likely the case. Better I start accepting it now.
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@northernnarwhal im not saying you are im just saying to try and keep some happy thoughts
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@mastertdi My grandpa on the other side of my family died just last year and I've experienced a history of family deaths in the past, so I guess this isn't a new experience or anything but it's still kind of a bummer.
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@rainbowdash3847 I think the happiest thoughts I can think right now is that he'll be in no pain.
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@northernnarwhal I get ya. More than I'd like to
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@mastertdi There's this big family grave in Quebec I visit every year during the summer to pay respects.
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@northernnarwhal what ever you can mange, i'm also going through what you're going through my grandma is close to death she has maybe a year at most to live so i know the pain you are going though, if it helps.
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@rainbowdash3847 That's good to hear. I think part of the reason I sort of know my grandpa is on his last legs is because my father and I don't really talk a lot so it's odd for him to call me and even odder for him to desperately ask if I know the phone number for a priest when he knows I'm agnostic.
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@northernnarwhal well when if the time comes... we will always be here for you, right guys
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@rainbowdash3847 That's good to hear
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@northernnarwhal sorry if it sounds like im repeating my self but i just dont want anyone to fall into a pit of depression
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@rainbowdash3847 Eh, it wouldn't be the first time (or the last)
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@northernnarwhal wait... not the last
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@rainbowdash3847 It's a subtle way of saying I'll likely get depressed in the future too
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no no one day maybe tomorrow maybe in 2 years your life will take a turn for the better. And when it does it will be awesome so don't fell so bad just wait.
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@rainbowdash3847 I'm not saying it will be perpetually depressing, more of a peaks and valleys sort of scenario. That's the way it's always been.
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@northernnarwhal but i doesn't haft to be that way, you don't haft to have peaks and valleys you can just have peaks and only 1 or 2 valleys in your life time.
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@rainbowdash3847 It's fine, really.
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@northernnarwhal no you should rarely be sad and if you are sad it should never be something like depresion.
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@rainbowdash3847 I'd rather not go down this road right now because I imagine I'll only emerge more depressed than I was going into it.
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@northernnarwhal okay then. sry
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@rainbowdash3847 It's okay, you just wanted to help. But in all seriousness I'm fine.
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@northernnarwhal i know i know, its just i'm in a state of depression right now so i don't want other people going through what i'm going through.
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@rainbowdash3847 That's very considerate of you, it reminds me of someone I know
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@northernnarwhal thank you
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