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people saying mean things about themselves irks me
Monday, 25-Jan-16 05:24:49 UTC from web-
@yodelerty I know this feeling all too well, and it saddens me
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@northernnarwhal je suis upset
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@yodelerty Both the saying mean things about yourself part and the watching other people say mean things about themselves part, and neither are ideal.
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@northernnarwhal I mean yeah, for sure
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@yodelerty Like, self criticism and growth is one thing, but grappling with when that instead simply becomes self laceration is kind of difficult. Likewise in the opposite direction too, I think it's important to love yourself but not to the point of arrogance, which is a tough line to draw.
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@northernnarwhal loving yourself is hard when there's nothing to love tbh
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@yodelerty I dunno about that. That feels more like a gotcha self-fulfilling prophecy than anything else.
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@northernnarwhal I guess we'll never know
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@yodelerty In any case, it's jarring to see you post this http://rainbowdash.net/notice/4067971 just minutes after posting this http://rainbowdash.net/notice/4067964
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@northernnarwhal I'm a hypocrite
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@yodelerty Not that we all haven't been at some point, but I hope you understand that it really is upsetting to see people you care about unfairly tear themselves apart.
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@northernnarwhal We'll see
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