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Anyway, sorry for earlier, I was just tired of "i hate this, i hate that, i hate you, i hate you because you hate that, i hate you because you dont hate that, hate, hate, hate, hate, hate, hate, hate, hate, hate, hate, hate" it seems there is nothing people can do that doesnt involve hating something and that sometimes feels like deeping my mind in boiling oil. sorry guys
Thursday, 16-Jun-16 23:14:31 UTC from web-
Thursday, 16-Jun-16 23:15:35 UTC from web
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@mushi honestly I feel ya. I understand people having some hate but I really wish it wasn't so prevalent. It peturbs me.
Friday, 17-Jun-16 00:29:27 UTC from web-
@razzleberry yeah, people seem to have lost the capacity to do anything but hating on everything
Friday, 17-Jun-16 01:04:02 UTC from web
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@mushi You didn't say anything bad. It's completely normal to snap when someone keeps talking crap about you for no reason whatsoever
Friday, 17-Jun-16 00:55:46 UTC from web-
@nerthos @mushi One can only get pushed so much before they push back. This is neither unexpected, or out of line.
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@maiyannah And in all fairness it's way past the time to push back.
Friday, 17-Jun-16 00:59:14 UTC from web-
@nerthos Not my call to make since it doesn't affect me, but ... I do think people are often too harsh on themselves for behaviours that are hardly unexpected. Everyone has different tolerances, but no one should apologize for dealing with people who intentionally cross their tolerances intentionally.
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@maiyannah I just think people have been too tame in recent years when allowing minorities to constantly insult them for no reason, and I completely sympathize with mushi.
Friday, 17-Jun-16 01:03:03 UTC from web-
@nerthos They tend to stop doing it when you push back enough, which is why no one should apologize for pushing pack.
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@maiyannah Exactly why it annoys me with tame people, and more so with a tame majority. It's understandable when you don't have the resources to fight back, but when you're able to easily crush those that are attacking you, not doing it is criminal.
Friday, 17-Jun-16 01:05:37 UTC from web-
@nerthos There's a line between picking your battles and just being cowardly.
Not being cowardly shouldnt be something you apologize for.-
@maiyannah I simply want the heterosexual white majority to stand firm for once and say "that's it, we won't allow more insults, any more and we fight back" but there's this widespread made up guilt complex that just baffles me.
Friday, 17-Jun-16 01:09:14 UTC from web-
@nerthos It wouldn't be effective if people didn't let it control them. That's the thing. People do this to themselves, essentially.
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@maiyannah I know, and that's the annoying thing about it. How can I defend a group that I'm part of that refuses to defend itself?
Friday, 17-Jun-16 01:12:24 UTC from web-
@nerthos You cannot, nor should you. You can, however, defend yourself, and you should.
I couldn't tell you how many times being unapologetic for standing up for myself or my wife has been painted wholesale by groups of people as some mean and abusive person. No, I'm just not a doormat. I am never the aggressor in these things, I am a woman that prefers to remain in her own domain for a variety of reasons. But tresspass into said domain to bother me or mine and I will destroy you, and you will have deserved it.
People need to learn to appreciate that much more.-
@maiyannah Oh, of course I defend myself, but it's quite annoying to see the lack of dignity a group I'm part of displays.
Friday, 17-Jun-16 01:15:55 UTC from web-
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@maiyannah It's not even a group I joined and can quit. I'm on the default, so it makes it worse.
Friday, 17-Jun-16 01:20:27 UTC from web-
@nerthos At this point I call myself one mostly as a point of principle - others do not define my beliefs or what I call them, I do.
But the baheaviour of many other so-called feminists is downright embarassing.
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@nerthos (intentionally cross their tolerances intentionally ... ahhhh the heat is melting me brain)
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