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It's also strange to me that people expect everyone to commit this idea of cheating on others. Like lusting for another while in a relationship and then acting on that is inevitable. But it is a choice.
While it may be natural to love different people at once in various ways, that you might find someone else attractive... that doesn't mean that you will cheat, that you must act on it.
Personally, I can admire other people from a distance... but never want to seek a relationship with them. Once I am in a committed relationship, then that desire lessens even more. As it is, I don't find one night stands to be appealing. I don't see a use or need for it, while other people do. I do think there is a case for monogamy and marriage still, but it's not for everyone. It takes a certain type of person, someone who values what that entails. I think it is important to find others who share a similar mindset here, or else it will continue to clash.-
@sim Normalizing it is the easy way out for foul, disloyal degenerates that don't want to accept how terrible they are as people. It's easy to deal with it if you say "it's human nature, everyone eventually does it", not so much if you have to accept that by doing it, you're nothing else than a traitor of the worst kind, who broke the most sacred covenant two people can create.
Monday, 20-Feb-17 05:08:21 UTC from web
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