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I guess a relationship is nothing for me. For whatever reason, I always annoy my partner by not always liking the kind of things she likes (especially the darker humour) and then everything I say is wrong again and she only gets more annoyed and then just leaves me be... Every day I feel more and more like I should just break the promise I made her and kill myself or so. Why am I even living this life for someone who only seems to really care about me when I'm in a good mood and can do things with her or very slightly when I'm about to break my promise with her? She ignores almost every "I love you" I say and rather spends time on her stupid games than on me, even though I never even start any games so I can answer her quickly because otherwise she gets annoyed or sad... I'm more and more starting to believe I've made a terrible mistake with this relationship, but I don't want to leave her alone (because, apparently, she cares enough about me to get sad when I talk about it) but grr...
Wednesday, 07-Nov-12 17:51:50 UTC from web-
@omni tl;dr: Give me a hug and tell me I'm being a stupid idiot and that I'm completely mistaking about all of it.
Wednesday, 07-Nov-12 17:52:38 UTC from web -
@omni The single most important thing in any relationship is honesty.
Wednesday, 07-Nov-12 17:56:07 UTC from web-
@toksyuryel Which is why I'm going to have a serious conversation about all of it when she comes over this Friday. I've told her online often enough how much her behaviour is hurting me but it doesn't really seem to be getting through to her...
Wednesday, 07-Nov-12 17:57:59 UTC from web-
@omni hugs tight be strong. Make sure she listens and understands.
Wednesday, 07-Nov-12 18:02:18 UTC from web
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@omni every relationship worth something sees trials. Honestly, though, I'm not terribly surprised you've grown apart because of the long-distance factor. When I was engaged we spent about 6 months apart, talking on the phone for hours each day, even letting the calls last through the night while both of us slept to feel closer, but even then, the distance was taxing on our relationship.
Wednesday, 07-Nov-12 18:32:36 UTC from web-
@pony that's pretty cute
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