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how I feel this weekend http://pepooni.deviantart.com/art/Sad-Apple-410923427
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 04:45:35 UTC from web-
@prettypurpleprincesspublicprincesstimeline Why the long face?
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 04:48:46 UTC from web-
@northernnarwhal girl I met and hung out with at otakon has been talking with me since then every day, sometimes nonstop. We plan to do a dinner thing friday night at this convention. Night of, we meet up finally and she blows me off. Complete change of behavior, and the texts/calls stop after that. No explanation, no nothing. I am too old for the games, too tired for relationship nonsense.
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:00:13 UTC from web-
@prettypurpleprincesspublicprincesstimeline Wow that's incredibly lame. Wouldn't even bother with that as surely I don't need to tell you.
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:02:08 UTC from web-
@awlderpy @northernnarwhal this is what I feel, yet all my friends there say I should seek her out, contact her, etc. I've done nothing wrong - and if I have, she has a terrible way of showing it. She didn't blow me off in an angry or hostile way; when we met up at the time we had our hug and hi's but then she goes "oh there's my driver, so bye" and just walks off with her group of friends. I'm already upset from a bady day at the con and this takes it over the edge... I call for my ride and while waiting she makes her way back around and asks why I'm just standing around, still mentions nothing about anything we've previously talked about. She gets towed off by her entourage of friends again. I have sufficient reason to believe she never had interest spending time with me, regardless of the amount of interest she showed over the phone
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:15:02 UTC from web-
@prettypurpleprincesspublicprincesstimeline Sounds like she's trying to be a player. Yeah let her play her game somewhere else
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:17:27 UTC from web-
@awlderpy what really makes her mad is that her friends told me she taalks about me all the time, so I don't get why she'd act like this. Still no word from her, so I guess she just completely 180'd on me
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:20:41 UTC from web-
@prettypurpleprincesspublicprincesstimeline Coming from a dude who's pretty much consigned to be alone for the rest of his life I'd say time to put that whole thing behind you; take that as you would
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:22:18 UTC from web-
@awlderpy I'm probably just done with dating. I'm tired of these ladies I meet claiming there are no good men, then play games with the few that come along. Or even worse, chastise them for being men and slowly chip away at their identity.
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:26:59 UTC from web-
@prettypurpleprincesspublicprincesstimeline Even worse is when you date a close friend and you screw up and complicate everything.
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:28:59 UTC from web-
@northernnarwhal I did that once
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:29:48 UTC from web-
@fuzzypony I unfortunately learned the hard way as to why that's a bad idea. Which is why I call bogus on the idiom "it was better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all" because when your partner leaves you high and dry and manipulates you, you're going to feel like crap.
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:33:05 UTC from web-
@northernnarwhal It's just a dumb thing to do. And the idiom is saying that it's better to have felt love at all.
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:34:27 UTC from web-
@fuzzypony I know, but love hurts afterwards. If I could go back and change what I did, I would in a heartbeat.
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:35:45 UTC from web-
@northernnarwhal Tough luck mang
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:36:51 UTC from web-
@fuzzypony Yeah, you eventually learn to just roll with the punches. I certainly regret how things went, but I don't dwell on it.
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:37:38 UTC from web-
@northernnarwhal Make sure not to dwell on anything too long
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:38:03 UTC from web-
@fuzzypony Except for Pokemon. I've been dwelling on Pokemon for over 10 year and couldn't be happier.
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:39:05 UTC from web-
@northernnarwhal That's a good point~
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:39:17 UTC from web
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@northernnarwhal I dwell on stuff all the time
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:39:45 UTC from web-
@flamingpandaomg As do I. It's in human nature to dwell.
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:41:12 UTC from web-
@northernnarwhal I'm basically a big bag of guts filled with regret, dwelling, low self-esteem and bad humor.
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:41:53 UTC from web-
@flamingpandaomg We all have our high and low points, it's our choice as to what we want to highlight.
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:43:39 UTC from web
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@northernnarwhal I know that feel
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:31:44 UTC from web
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@prettypurpleprincesspublicprincesstimeline Pretty much what happened to me after the last one. Not cut out to date or what have you. Meh.
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:29:13 UTC from web-
@awlderpy maybe you are and the girl was just being a superman64?
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:32:52 UTC from web-
@prettypurpleprincesspublicprincesstimeline I can't believe you just used Superman 64 as an actual term.
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@prettypurpleprincesspublicprincesstimeline after so many I'll assume the role of common denominator and be just fine with that.
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:34:09 UTC from web
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@awlderpy what really makes her mad is that her friends told me she taalks about me all the time, so I don't get why she'd act like this. Still no word from her, so I guess she just completely 180'd on me
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:20:55 UTC from web
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@prettypurpleprincesspublicprincesstimeline Maybe she's socially inept. Maybe she doesn't get that you expected a date type thing.
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:17:56 UTC from web -
@prettypurpleprincesspublicprincesstimeline I agree with @awlderpy. You're better off finding someone else who is willing to be less cryptic. Dating is a crazy game and first impressions are everything.
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:19:34 UTC from web
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@prettypurpleprincesspublicprincesstimeline Dating is a weird environment. If she couldn't stay committed, you're better off without her anyway. Just my thoughts.
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:02:09 UTC from web -
@prettypurpleprincesspublicprincesstimeline I'd go for the direct approach. Ask if she's alright first since something might have happened, then ask why she didn't show.
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:09:40 UTC from web-
@pony the only problem asking her if something happened, is that she looked happy as all could be. If anything, I bet what happened was that she's letting her friends decide how her time at the con is spent, since they're asking her to do all these shoots and panels. So even in this best case scenario, and given her history of good communication with me, she would have told me at least something
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:24:19 UTC from web-
@prettypurpleprincesspublicprincesstimeline yeah I caught that. It sounds like she just got busy and didn't think you'd mind. She could be flaky like that. Best strategy might be to ask her whether she knew that you wanted to spend time with her. Chances are she didn't know or if she did then she got pulled away unwillingly and felt a bit bad about it after, but there are lots of possibilities. You'll never know unless you ask her.
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:32:47 UTC from web
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Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:11:08 UTC from web
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@snowcone I'm not to the point of despair, I'm just papayaed that I'm getting older losing hair watching all my friends find love and all of qualities amount to nothing @pony she hasn't contacted me at all. I bet we give this a week and I still won't hear from her. I also feel like she'd spin this and make me the bad guy
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:42:04 UTC from web-
@prettypurpleprincesspublicprincesstimeline Are you Dane?
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 05:42:22 UTC from web-
@fuzzypony no, why
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 07:57:47 UTC from web-
@prettypurpleprincesspublicprincesstimeline Ironically that was for Ross
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 08:01:13 UTC from web-
@fuzzypony oh, no I'm not.
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 08:01:48 UTC from web-
@flamingpandaomg You sure
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 08:03:08 UTC from web-
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 08:03:25 UTC from web
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@flamingpandaomg oky
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 08:03:41 UTC from web
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@fuzzypony lol I only saw it because my friend I'm sharing the hotel room with brought back a girl and their activities woke me up
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 08:10:55 UTC from web-
@prettypurpleprincesspublicprincesstimeline Chess sure can be loud, huh?
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 08:11:39 UTC from web-
@flamingpandaomg I guess so lol
Sunday, 03-Nov-13 08:12:47 UTC from web
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Sunday, 03-Nov-13 08:11:59 UTC from web
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