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So might get life insurance money... Feel bad about it
Thursday, 07-Nov-13 04:00:27 UTC from web-
@sorentehpegisus That's just how the system works. 'Isn't your fault.
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@clayinthecarpet I mean like take it
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@sorentehpegisus I know what you mean. It isn't something you have a say in, really. It's the way the policy works and she paid for you to have that ability someday. If you get money from it, it's nothing more than something she wanted for you.
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@sorentehpegisus I felt the same way when my mother pased, so I followed her wishes, she told me to make sure all her bills were paid and then I could do, whatever I wanted with the rest... so I took care of all her bills and spent the rest on my friends... and a little on myself, but not much, it didn't feel right to me.
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@colfax I can understand how it wouldn't, but you and @sorentehpegisus have to remember that it's what they would have wanted. They made those conscious decisions with you in mind and that money goes to you...for whatever reason you wish to use it - hopefully a decent, respectful reason.
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@clayinthecarpet I made some of my friends happy, which helped me feel better.
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@colfax That sounds like a good use of the money to me. :)
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@clayinthecarpet Right now I wish I had some of it back...
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@colfax Live in the present, man. Decisions have been made and it serves no constructive purpose to feel regretful about it now.
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