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Jeff Stathers what the

@fencingblind You think you wasted time doing that? Try hatching a shiny Pokemon using the Masuda Method. That almost took me a month to do!

Jeff Stathers what the

@fencingblind Well, I really hope everything turns out alright.

Jeff Stathers what the

@fencingblind Oooh, you mean that...I'm so sorry to hear that. :(

Jeff Stathers what the

@fencingblind I'm doing pretty good right now. Is something wrong?

Jon and Angela Conrad what the

@fencingblind Anytime.

Jon and Angela Conrad what the

@fencingblind Mainly, let everyone know that your relationship with them hasn't changed, then go on with your life as if there has been no change. I mean, psych yourself into believing that there is not a problem for you to fret about. (Everything is going to be okay; there is nothing that can be done; let it be.) Then, get some sleep. Wake up refreshed and take things one step at a time. It will be easy. The worry is the hard part.

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@fencingblind Whoever's words, it's funny... can't support children with a bad back.

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@fencingblind That juxtaposition of "back problems" and "support children" amuses me.

Jon and Angela Conrad what the

@fencingblind Mainly though, it is really more about the kids trying to be kind to both parents and also being considerate of themselves and not getting bogged down with adult soap operas. The more hobbies the better during a divorce. I would think that TV, for instance, would be a terrible hobby, because it will crap out when you really want something to take your mind away from your social setting, whereas artistic pursuits and outdoorsy stuff and socializing is all really good for getting out of the more commonly more dysfunctional home.

Jon and Angela Conrad what the

@fencingblind You've also got to consider their respective genders and their interests and what the custody arrangements end up being (My folks battled for years, before my mom got custody, and my dad left town.) and how each of the children and the parents sub-group. (My dad and I liked doing outdoorsy stuff together, but my younger brother liked to kick it at the house, as did my mother. They didn't hang out with each other, they just both preferred to spend time alone as to being with my dad and myself.) Even nine years old is enough in these days for a person to have a social life outside of home.

Jon and Angela Conrad what the

@fencingblind The younger, the better, usually. Everyone will be overcompensating and trying to be considerate of others that they imagine would not be as able to understand, but the problem is the so-called grown-ups that think that after all of these years, that they would be better off by canceling their right-hand-man's contract. It is kind of backwards and desperate thinking that many funny movies are made about, but in the end, all we have as each other, so you get rid of one set of personal problems and open yourself to a new member to move in and try to adjust.

Jon and Angela Conrad what the

@fencingblind I canceled three paragraphs that I started to you, so here is an @ instead. Feel free to send private messages, too, if you want to talk about it. I have been through a divorce when I was 7, and I'm almost 36, now.

PAL what the

@fencingblind i'll be here if you ever need to talk!!!

PAL what the

@fencingblind I

madington flavors what the

@fencingblind not a problem stuff like this is way to rough to handle by yourself

Milo what the

@fencingblind You take all the time you need. You are welcome.

PAL what the

@fencingblind I'm really sorry to hear that!, i know how it feels, r u ok?

madington flavors what the

@fencingblind im.....so sorry to hear that.... i know that doesn't do much to make you feel better but....my heart goes out to you.

Jeff Stathers what the

@fencingblind Oh no! I'm really sorry to hear that!

madington flavors what the

@fencingblind whats that...... or do you feel like sharing?

Jaden Stock what the

@fencingblind what up man

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@fencingblind To clarify, I did start watching the original run after the new one started.

celestiaforequestria what the

@fencingblind Σ

celestiaforequestria what the

@fencingblind W

celestiaforequestria what the

@fencingblind wumbo

Oni Sorasousha what the

@fencingblind I missed it till you mentioned it. Hehe. Ed is best bebop character.

Oni Sorasousha what the

@fencingblind And I'm sure mushrooms prefer you. \o/

kirurakiru what the

@fencingblind okay well that's good it just doesnt have a appeal for me. i dunno it bores me to be honest

Gherkin ☑️ what the

@fencingblind Oi! Less of the swearing.