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The whole deal with the friend zone I hate is, people announce it as some kind of anomaly. It means you got rejected by an individual and, either wants to emphasize that even though the individual rejected and did not requite your love, does not mean to reject your friendship as it is also an essential thing to be reciprocated. You are only friends with a friend, not a stranger. And the other thing, they might just have met you, and you pronouncing your love may have sparked their intrigue, but not total approval. So, they might want to just, get to know you one as a friend first. It is a common thing for people to end up courting people within their circle of friends. And some take that as a normality. A... precaution if you will. You can get out of this "Zone" by saying, "Hey, I don't like you rejecting my love and I no longer want to be your friend." (Which is weird to suddenly do. it implies you were their for their love and not to give them yours as well. Strange.)
Friday, 23-Jan-15 01:35:06 UTC from web-
@metaltao OR you can be ridiculously dreamy to the person you're courting and force your way out of it. Worked for me.
Friday, 23-Jan-15 01:38:23 UTC from web-
@nerthos Mm-hmm. As they may want to still get to know you. Or, they may just wanted to be friends. But, people change, they are not static. And, perceptions can change and allow for more room, especially in long lasting friendship. People have a tendency to... *waves hand in air* I don't know, ENJOY people they have gotten to know longer, and this can spark a romantic interest later on. Especially if you proved your metal. (Like you say you did. Gd damn Casanerthos!)
I forgot to mention this... GOD DAMN! I learned this concept not to long ago either. Thank you for bringing it up! Very much!Friday, 23-Jan-15 01:42:09 UTC from web-
@metaltao There are even people who will only feel attracted to people they've been friends with for quite a while. They won't accept starting a relationship as a romantic thing, but they will in tie upgrade a close friendship to the next step.
Friday, 23-Jan-15 01:46:02 UTC from web-
@nerthos Like a Step ladder? And, I believe I have said that.
Hey, Nerthos? Can I boop your nose?Friday, 23-Jan-15 01:47:32 UTC from web-
@metaltao Nope. You can't. You know well enough I'm not affectionate with people in that way.
Friday, 23-Jan-15 01:48:52 UTC from web-
@nerthos HOld up! ... Nose Booping... Is a sign of... Affection??
Ohhh... I have to ask many people many questions now. Like...Friday, 23-Jan-15 01:50:05 UTC from web-
@metaltao Not of close affection, but it requires a little bit of it. I don't allow people in general to go further than a handshake or slap on the back.
Friday, 23-Jan-15 01:51:04 UTC from web-
@nerthos *sloppily shakes hand*
Friday, 23-Jan-15 01:51:25 UTC from web-
@skyllie *sloppies back*
Friday, 23-Jan-15 01:52:26 UTC from web
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@nerthos Ahhh, I see. I can understand people not wanting their nose booped. It's so close to the eye!~
Friday, 23-Jan-15 01:52:34 UTC from web
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