Pony (pony)'s status on Thursday, 05-Dec-13 07:51:50 UTC
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@yodelerty You can't justify hurting others just because you're weak. There's a difference between simply venting and self-deprecation. Venting is fine, like saying you're feeling down or moody, but saying you're worthless hurts both you and people who come across that negativity, especially those with any sense of compassion. Tell us you're angry or feel weak and explain exactly what actions led to that feeling, but hold back the judgement you've passed on yourself. Let yourself be "boring" sometimes if that's what it takes. If you want to be interesting in a positive way then try sharing your hobbies. We all have ponies in common here. You could try striking a conversation about that. If you feel ignored, poke me or FlamingPanda or whine (a little) even! That would still be better than self-deprecating.
