Rarity (rarity)'s status on Thursday, 23-Jan-14 02:49:37 UTC
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@clayinthecarpet it's different with people you know intimately, i.e. family members. rule number 1: If they say they don't want to talk about it, don't keep asking them. Seriously. My father was an Officer in the US Navy, but had to do a lot of spy type things during the Gulf War. I KNOW not to ask him about it, because he's made it clear that if he wants to tell me, he will tell me. Just be tactful.