lilytheamazingfaintingpony's status on Wednesday, 14-Sep-11 16:35:17 UTC
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@ceruleanspark In my experience it all depended on which youth pastor I talked to. Some thought it was okay. Some were not negative against it as a rule, but warned me that it would be wrong if I kept doing it after I married. One claimed it was okay as long as I did it mechanically, i.e. if I didn't fantasize while doing it. However, there *were* some who thought it counted as sex.