Pony (pony)'s status on Monday, 20-Jan-14 08:54:10 UTC
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@vt3c Then her illness is a barrier that won't let you talk to her. She's accountable for her actions, and some day she'll realize her misery was never your fault, only her own. But she's not her actions. Her potential as a human being isn't limited by her illness. She could one day become the mother you deserve, and, if I were in your position, I'd try to love her for that, but I'd keep my distance if arguing didn't help. Granted my mother never threw things at me (though she did throw me sometimes) and she usually loved me. Even when I drove her to hysterics as a kid she eventually forgave me, and so does my wife. (I married my mother apparently.) I mean, I don't know what you're going through. If she can never speak a kind word to you then that's something I haven't experienced, and I'm sorry. If the illness is really that strong then you'd best avoid it dutifully (even by legal means if necessary), and hope for better days when she'll accept your love as her son.
