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Losing a fight about bronies >_>
Tuesday, 11-Mar-14 20:30:32 UTC from web-
@bobthecheesegal First step to not losing them: don't get into them.
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@mrmattimation i just wanted him to stop insulting us...
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@oracle no one can ever try anyway according to a green swamp muppet
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@bobthecheesegal Well, people are gonna insult you, and that's something you'll have to deal with, and I'm gonna be frank, dealing with it isn't easy at first. At the end of the day you have to remember that they're just words, and while they can hurt, they can be overcome as well. And don't rise to it. If somebody's being a dick and in response you act like a dick, then you're no better than them. The key is learning to ignore it.
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@bobthecheesegal Call upon the brony brotherhood
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@mrmattimation but he's my boyfriend...
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@ceruleanspark Did you mean Brony troublemakers disposal unit? =D
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@mhyshka I mean the guys with the cool hoods and the wrist-knives
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@ceruleanspark i know where this is going
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@bobthecheesegal Well then you need to ask yourself a few things. (Disclaimer: I have not held down a girlfriend for more than a month, I have no idea how these things work, and my advice is probably terrible.)
Have you taken the time to explain to him why what he's saying upsets you? I'm trusting he's not a total asshole, and if you can help him understand what he's doing to hurt you and agrees to work on it, then great! If, however, said boyfriend IS an asshole and doesn't respect your opinion enough to not insult it, then is it really worth it? -
@mrmattimation I wonder that myself sometimes... idk, he always makes me mad and sad and then turns it around on himself like "oh I always do things wrong, boohoo" I don't even know anymore
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@bobthecheesegal Starting to sound like me... (Disclaimer: I have not held down a girlfriend for more than a month, I have no idea how these things work, and my advice is probably terrible.) I (think) he's using self-pity to control you. If he's always upsetting you and then he turns around and makes himself the victim, that's not entirely healthy.
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@mrmattimation yeah well, oh well, ill get over it
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