Griffin (vcgriffin)'s status on Monday, 16-Sep-13 22:28:00 UTC
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@ceruleanspark @ceruleanspark But blaming yourself is only any good if there is something that you can change that was the cause of the thing going wrong, its more for mechanical faults than for faults with people. Unless you are directly involved with anything, the variables of human interaction are too numerate to contemplate let alone calculate and assign values to them. The best anyone can ever do is do what they think is best when they are there, worrying about it before or after destroys any human inaction and just leaves one paralysed by inaction and self doubt. If people drift away or argue you cant hold yourself responsible for what other people do or react, then we would just live in caves, (and I think we brought our keyboards into our caves so we could be a little less alone without going outside)
