@themightyglider @nerthos No. I wish more people were egotistical and gave a damn about themselves. But the truth is that most people are contradictory and self-sabotage themselves. Things that happened to them in the past grapeed them up, and they live on with all that baggage. They say they want one thing, but aren't putting in the effort through actions to prove that they want those things... it's more like the opposite. So they don't think they deserve or are worthy of what they claim to want. Most people have poor self-esteem, and it shows. Most people don't properly examine themselves, and work to improve their self-esteem... so they remain stuck as the product of their upbringing. Stuck in their old habits, contradicting ideas/beliefs and unwilling to change because it's hard. As a generalisation, people generally avoid anything painful (Especially if it contradicts their beliefs and ideas), they prefer what is familiar to them and to take t…