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  1. Well, just a few days ago I got a message from him on Facebook, apologisng in great detail for what he did, admitting he overblew it all, etc. Natrually I won't be able to forget about this outright (cont) but he's admitted he was stupid to overblow such a small little thing to the degree that he did, so I guess I can't hold grudges. I won't forget it outright, but you know what I mean. We've been friends for far too long for me to hold a grudge like that, especially when he did try to make amends ,may not be so forgiving if he does it again (this was a lot more than your standard argument in a relathionship with a friend or a partner as you can probably gather) but I'm sure he won't. Sorry for rambling, but it's been on my mind a lot over the past few days, just as it was when it all went down. Thanks for reading, if ya did :)

    Thursday, 22-Sep-11 22:10:12 UTC from MuSTArDroid
    1. @leonkfox There's no reason to hold grudges. I judge people on a by-current basis regardless of my viewpoint or respect towards them since so many factors go into the perspective and actions of the others. Generally they learn from mistakes and are capable of getting along with you under the correct circumstances. I only respond to past things if someone else brings them up and I wish more people would follow this philosophy.

      Thursday, 22-Sep-11 22:14:17 UTC from web
      1. @ponybis *Past issues. If it's a subject I wish to discuss I will still bring it up.

        Thursday, 22-Sep-11 22:15:02 UTC from web
    2. @leonkfox Aw, hey, that IS good news! I'm glad things did get straightened out with that. Sometimes, it just takes letting things be for a while for cooler heads to prevail. :) I do hope that things will mend over time. I know how it is, all too well, that feeling of forgiveness, but needing to rebuild trust.

      Thursday, 22-Sep-11 22:17:44 UTC from MuSTArDroid
      1. @astra Glad you understand where I'm coming from, and thanks :)

        Thursday, 22-Sep-11 22:31:17 UTC from MuSTArDroid