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Oops. Mum was listening in while I was talking to my sister about Dad forgetting things and me /being/ forgotten that one week. I saw she was less than pleased that I had said those things. I hope she realises that I still care, I just didn't know that they were around and I wanted to raise the topic of the driving lessons that Dad scheduled today. But now I don't think I'll bother.
Sunday, 08-Dec-13 07:52:44 UTC from web-
@coffeecream Oh banana. Yep. I just saw her again and she says to me with wet cheeks, "You Dad and I will need to have a big talk later." I shouldn't have said anything. I shouldn't have grapeing said anything.
Sunday, 08-Dec-13 08:04:07 UTC from web-
@coffeecream "banana off" is the proper answer.
Sunday, 08-Dec-13 08:06:05 UTC from web-
Sunday, 08-Dec-13 08:07:43 UTC from web
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@coffeecream Eventually you'll have to set a limit.
Sunday, 08-Dec-13 08:08:28 UTC from web-
@nerthos I really hope they don't think that I hate them. I know that they are very busy. But if someone tells me "Hey do you want to do this at this time" then I actually do put that on my calendar for the day. Hell, I love my Mum, I provide my emotional support to her where I can - but after my interactions with them today, they probably think I hate how this family works (I do, a little, but not completely). I'm a little worried, considering the "big talks" usually have to do with drastically restricting things I can do. Not even my sister gets them very often. You know, the violent one. Gets in arguments every few days. I'm worried because I fear they think I'm worse than her
Sunday, 08-Dec-13 08:16:26 UTC from web-
@coffeecream As I see it, they don't think you're worse than her. They think she will ignore them, whilst you will do as they say and just bow your head to whatever restriction. When people get used to winning, they start demanding more and more. If you don't stand up for yourself now and then, things will only get gradually worse.
Sunday, 08-Dec-13 08:21:35 UTC from web-
@nerthos I agree with this statement as well. There has to be a point where the buck stops @coffeecream , and you will have to make that point. I don't want to see you on the street but I don't want to see you suffer either.
Monday, 09-Dec-13 03:46:05 UTC from web
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@coffeecream Normally I'd just let people screw themselves by lacking conviction but you're a good guy and you deserve a proper life. So give what I said a thought.
Sunday, 08-Dec-13 08:32:54 UTC from web-
@nerthos I won't know what is going to happen until tomorrow afternoon at the earliest. Both parents won't talk to me.
Sunday, 08-Dec-13 11:14:57 UTC from web
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